In this case

Ok, i was supposed to come back the next day and post the next story...but things don't always happen as we want it to rite? Besides, i sorta had to confirm with gist with person before i gossip bout it....In the process of gathering the correct info, another issue was brought to my attention and i feel like i should put that one down first...

Here goes it! I swear these things are really interesting and many times i find it hard to believe that some of the issues are true...but unfortunately, we do live in a very interesting world and shit happens:

Case # 2

Bayo hadn't spoken to Kike in about 2-3 months so he was really excited to hear from her...the conversation, like many others finally drifted to relationships hence:

B: Na wa o, really good to hear from you sha...so how is the man?
Kike: ahhh...i've missed u men! but the man is good sha..."we're just loving each other"

about a week ago, Bayo calls Kike up to chit-chat...not long before the conversation drifted to man again:

B: howz ur bf and kike goes "which one?" a rather long and hard hiss/abi it's smacking of teeth follows...

Bayo, as per he likes gist like that too, red flags/sparks is going off in his head...

B: what do u mean which one? the one you guys were "loving each other now?"
K: you mean the one in nigeria at the moment getting married?
B: Ahh...Kike and u didn't tell me, they're doing ur "mo-mi-mo-e" without you
K: jero, his marrying someone else!

Kike starts to give full gist:

apparently, the guy already had a fiancee in nigeria... their introductions had been done a month before he came to yankee and met Kike.

(i bet you're asking the same question i was asking...how did Kike find out?) the real gist....

well, dude was going to naija, and started packing his suitcases and all....that afternoon, he was had gone out...Kike being the good girlfriend and in the house of the man she was in-love with went over to make dinner like she always does....

she's done and nothing else to do so she decides to sha help the brother start packing properly...
opened the suitcase and GBAM! on top of a complete set suit is a program " Tunde weds Titi"

Kike decides to keep her cool....as she is a gentle person....Tunde gets home and they talk about it the situation...

K: but Tunde what have i done to deserve this? All of been is good and true to you...this whole relationship is really a lie
T: No my love, please don't say that...I truly love you but didn't know how to tell you this little situation...
K: You had so many opportunities to tell me and not once, in all ur love professing could u say i really love u but so so and so?
T: truth is, i didn't expect to fall in-love with you... i thought i was just going to have a bit of fun and then end it...but i realized u're really a beautiful person inside and out...i fell in-love with you and i just couldn't bring myself to hurt u like that....i couldn't tell you...i was going to fix things and tell you later...
K: fix things? fix things you say? How Tunde? How? U bloody have a wedding suit in your suitcase and then your wedding program...how were u planning on fixing things?
T: Baby, i'm going to Nigeria to go and end the relation, the marriage won't take place...i promise you it won't....i'm going to talk to my parents and end things....
K: (in btw tears) you promise me Tunde, u promise me....u promise me u'll come back to me?
T: Kike, i love you more than life itself....i'm going to have to end it with Titi and we can be together...i promise!
K: i'll be waiting for you my love...i'll be waiting...

Kike who had been saving herself finally gave in to Tunde that night...

hmmmm.....

In this case

I've been reading and hearing all these relationship issues recently and thought i would re-write and post a few i've heard recently...it's interesting how there are different dimensions in a relationship and one man's meat becomes another man's poison or u think u have a problem in your relationship until u hear someone else's...

I think this might be long....be warned!!



Case 1.



Ngozi and Segun met at a party and the flow was good...they started that phone talking and Segun must have figured he really liked Ngozi...Segun had asked Ngozi if there were any skeletons in her cupboards, the guys she had dated and what not...anyway, Ngozi clears the air, no one he should be concerned about...all the guys Ngozi have dated now live in a different state and probably much older than him...



All said and done, a month later the two begin to officially date. Two weeks after that, Segun is hanging with his boys and he mentions his seeing this new girl, ngozi; Toks, one of Segun's friends responds - ahhhhh...that girl! Nnamdi has had her before!!! Nnamdi is Segun's childhood best friend and cousin...



Ahhh! Segun is in shock! It can't be the same Ngozi his crazy about...the same Ngozi who is supposed to be innocent...never known a man.... His in so much shock his sober for the rest of the evening with the "boys"...



he later calls Ngozi on the telephone:

Ngozi: Hi, what's up?

Segun: Hi, i need to talk to u bout something but maybe tomorrow..i'm not in the right frame of mind at the moment...

Ngozi: No oh, now that u mention it, biko, u have to talk about it

After much back and forth about it...Segun asks

Segun: Do u know one Nnamdi?

Ngozi: Nnamdi? what's his last name?

Segun: Nnamdi Phillips

Ngozi: Oh yeah yeah...u know i completely forgot about him! jeezz...u know him?

Segun: His my cousin...you lied to me...both of u had something...

Ngozi: What the heck are u talking about?

Segun: The fact that you had something to do with my cousin and u told me you've never dated anyone in this state...

Ngozi: look, i met your cousin about 3years ago, out of the whole time i knew him, i saw him just once and it was a crazy night and all we did was kiss...now i'm soryr u had to find out from someone else, but i didn't think to mention it because technically he does not count...i saw him only that one time....

Segun: Well u should still have told me when i asked...that's my main man right there...right now, i don't even know what to think...i'm going to bed...

Well, that was it....Segun went to bed that night and the night after and the night after and so on for a week without calling...neither did Ngozi call...

Someone had to break the ice...

Ngozi calls to find out what the deal is...leaves a message for him as he didn't pick up...Segun later calls her back and act like nothing ever happened and they've been talking...

They later talk about the whole issue and ngozi comes to find out that Toks exagerrated the whole thing with Nnamdi. Nnamdi admits he does know Ngozi but Segun can't face asking him exactly what went down between them...

Well, appears that Segun is getting over it and works on the relationship with Ngozi.

Segun takes Ngozi to a club one day where she meets Nnamdi there - it's dark in there and they don't recognize each other...they even hug saying it's nice meeting u...It wasn't until later that Ngozi ask if that was Nnamdi because the guy had looked familiar even in the dark....apparently, Nnamdi asked Segun the same about Ngozi...

Ngozi had made up her mind she did not like Toks for starting bad gist...and even though he was one of Segun's boys, she still had not met him....it was a few months later when for some circumstance, Segun and Ngozi had to go by Toks house, Ngozi had first insisted that she was not going but curiosity i guess killed the cat...she decided she wanted to know who this Toks guy was....

Toks was rather nice, asking what ngozi wanted to eat, drink and all that...she was polite enough but she still made it obvious that she did not like him. Of-course, shortly after, Toks announces that Nnamdi is on his way...

Ngozi is not moved! she could care less or be bothered...

Nnamdi arrives, says his hello and sort of ignores Ngozi....even when Segun and Ngozi are about to leave, Nnamdi can't make eye contact, not until Ngozi says goodbye does he say something without looking up from the computer....

In the car, Segun begins to lament on how Ngozi and Nnamdi have to be friends...because Nnamdi is that friend that will be the best man if they get married. Nnamdi is also that friend that Segun feels he would call to take Ngozi to the hospital if his not there and Ngozi is having a baby...well, u get the gist...his best friend/cousin....

So how can Ngozi fix this?

Just leave things to air out with time and by itself or actually get Nnamdi's number and talk to him?

Ok, i confess.... i made up a good part of the story but there is some truth in it sha...i was trying to make it sweeter...lol

Case # 2 is coming up tomorrow....

Consequences

In the last 2 days i've chatted with 3 different guys that at one point or the other liked me but nothing came out of it. Not because they were not good guys but i recently concluded that maybe i'm hard to please...(i don't really think i'm hard to please sha)

Anyway, GM comes online yesterday and first thing that shows up on his screen is " my runaway wife"...i usually appear off-line if i'm at work but somehow i had left the thing appearing online so he found me...

We ended up going back and forth on who was really the "runaway" even though i argued that he was the one that left me i can very much say that i did disappear...

Shortly after my chat with GM i started to think back to all the guys that have one time or the other tried to establish something with me and by God, i realized they are a good number too... Some i wasted no time in saying -"No thank you," while others, i must admit, i led on! I led them on either because i was bored at the time they were talking to me or i actually enjoyed talking to them but got bored after a while and had to cut them off...while a select few i had to cut off even though i liked them, there were other factors that i found would not let the relationship progress and so i had to let go before it was too late.

Now i've come to a point where i'm afraid! I'm afraid of the consequences of my actions. I strongly believe that everything in life have consequences; either good or bad. I know for sure that some of these guys i've actually hurt in the process but am a tat bit too late now....

Now i'm afraid that any relationship i'm in now will yield to those consequences before anything else...I'm afraid that for this i cannot give my all in a relationship...i'm afraid that i could get seriously hurt...

Hmmm...

or is it all me being paranoid???????????

Grateful!!!

It's thanksgiving week in yankee but as Christians we're taught that everyday is thanksgiving. Atleast everyday we have a reason to thank the good Lord; if nothing else, for the fact that we have life. Sounds wierd, but not all have get such a privilege...

can u imagine someone who had the day planned out...drop off the kids at school, go to work, after work pick the kids up from afterschool, oh maybe she should stop by the groceries before picking up the kids, it may be easier without them, coming out of the grocery store, all of a sudden she slums down and blood all over, gun shot had been heard...some silly teens by the gas station got hold of a gun, practicing shotting...they miss-fired! A 36 year old life has been lost.

Or is it the 5 year old child who fell down on the Monkey bars at school, was rushed to the hospital but for some wierd reason did not make it there...

Anyway, i bet u get the gist now sha...The gift of Life...

I've got my own little worries that i allow overwhelm me sometimes and keep me down, yesterday was one of them. I actually went to bed saturday consciously telling myself that i was not going to be happy and i took that attitude to church on sunday.

Thank God for the worship and the worship leader and the the one scripture that came during the prayer session. "Let everything that has breath praise the Lord."

I looked around church and saw pple dressed nicely, i began to think- i really didn't have to walk to church. I was in my nice warm car i bought with my hard earned (even though small) salary; infact i'm still paying for it sef, thank God for "car note." I actually sepnt over a hundred dollars on my hair this same week, and still put a new pair of pants and a dress this week...

I have a roof over my head, and am warm at nite in my own bed with my fairly still new bedsheets and even comforter...

So why the heck i'm i making myself sad???????

It could have been a million times worse!!!!!!!

I have what we call a "budget" with God. It's a list we make at the beginning of the year of things we want God to do before the end of that year; and i still need to double check it but somehow i can outrightly say that i remember a few things from inside it and i can tesify that God has been good!!!

I left this, and coming back now, i've lost track of the point i was trying to make.

But i think it had something to do with just being grateful to God for little mercies...

I already know i'm a bit of a careless person but this has been the most annoying one in a while...i lost a set of very important keys at work. A co-worker of mine was quick to tell me that i should just still the principal's bunch of keys and go and duplicate them...me i figured i still had to report the keys, Godforbid some important children's files/documents are missing they would look for all of us that have keys...infact, the girl still told me earlier today that all i had to do is get my hand on the principal's keys and she'll do the rest...hmm...now i wonder why she was so eager to help...

Anyway, just found the keys as i had used it to hold the last page of a folder i had been working on last week...and i guess since last week, i've not picked up the folder sef...lol...can someone say careless!!! abeg, i know...but it's a relief sha...i was tired of boring keys to get in...

on another note, i'm inclined to mention as per it's all i'm hearing here...that i hope all those people eligible to vote have at this time gone out to go and fulfil their civic duty abi is it right?

on another another note, i just remembered something that happened last week that i had been meaning to share...again, men sha!

I met this guy, let's call him femi earlier on during the summer at one church's single's event. It was held at D&B so there was a lot of mingling going on. Anyway, Femi caught me of-guard and was really loud and since church people were there and all and the whole point was for people to meet people, i sha gave femi my number. Femi called me a couple of times and God forgive, i really thought the guy was a joke...he was funny though so whenever i was in the mood i picked up his calls....infact, he disturbed me one day so bad that he wanted to see me so i invited him over to where i was...i was away from my house that weekend...Truly, that visit only confirmed what i already knew...

Anyway, Femi too stopped calling me like that after that visit sha...i think i spoke to him maybe 2 months later and that was it...

Well, last week i get a call and it's from Femi!!! I'm honestly surprised as had even forgotten bout him. At some point, our conversation went thus:

Femi: So, how have you been, u just fashied me sha
me: I could have sworn it was the other way around, u fashied me...(who do i kid?)
Femi:ok oh, anyway, so are you married now, are you pregnant?
me: married ke? pregnant ke? not possible!!!
Femi: so why did you fashie me now? ok, are you seeing someone?
me: i didn't fashie u, other way around...and no, i'm not seeing anyone
Femi: ahh, ok so what about me? i thought we were having something?
me: ok, i kid, i'm seeing someone...sorry
Femi: are u sure?
me: yes now, haba!
Femi:for how long now? because we talked in June
me: emm, it's pretty recent sha...lol
Femi: why now? what about me?
me: at this point i'm laughing (by the way, i tend to laugh bout a lot of things...real goofy)
me: well, when i didn't see u i moved on...lol...
Femi: ok, i hope his good to you sha, if it does not work out, remember me
me: emm, i sure will
Femi: ok, what about that your friend that you were with at the place?
me: who? J? eyaaa, she's fine oh
Femi: Is she seeing someone too?
me: (of-course i'm laughing again, thinking to myself what a joke) yeah, she's seeing someone too
Femi: well, do you have any friends you can introduce me to?
me: i'll have to go think bout it, most of my friends are either married or in a relationship
Femi: ok oh, please think about it and call me back

Our conversation sha ended somehow and i just couldn't stop thinking the guy must be silly or is it me?

The year is coming to an end...na wa oh...

I WANT TO GET MARRIED!!!

Now, people that know me well enough will very much be surprised!! Infact i hear my dear freind J shouting some serious 7 halleluyahs on my behalf...lol

The thought, i won't lie, scares me like heck because too many times i'm convinced i have issues....and i'm not too good in the relationship department sef....even though i'm being considered for singles coordinator at my church...lol...but i have this nagging feeling telling me i want to...lol...(best way i can explain the feeling)

I want to blame it on a number possible reasons but all the reasons i can think about have always been there and they've never bothered me:

1. fact that a very old and dear friend of mine just contacted me and she's in the U.S. having a baby. (Not the first of my friends to have kids)

2. The new wedding webbies that Omosewa put up...lol... (I've been drooling on wedding webbies for bout 2 yrs now)

3. I'm about to turn a year older ( I've been turning a year older and marriageable age for about 3-5 years now)

4. Spoke to daddy schic this weekend and he mentioned that he was "expectant." Daddy schic never really talks about marriage...even though i've heard he expresses his concerns to others who then bring it up to me...

5. I'm currently being chased by atleast two men that i believe are very much eligible...inspite of the fact that i do want to get married, i can't go ahead with any of them...except ____________

Is something wrong with me??????????

I have a migraine!!!!!

I had to come write real quick before i forget again. Now i thought this was really funny...

this place is full of females and as expected there is usually quite a bit of talk going on about relationships on a regular basis. I've got this co-worker that we kinda became friends outside of work by hanging out occassionally, so i guess i can officially call her my friend now sha...

Anyway, whenever talk come up on relationships she's quick to say that we're the two last single women on earth and me on the other hand have been telling them "i'm getting married next year"for atleast 2-3 years now...lol....

let's call her "Amber" (hmmm...and i like the name oh). She does not date much even though she's in like 31/32. Anyway, Amber met this guy bout 2-3 weeks ago and they've been talking on the telephone. Yesterday, the dude calls her up and ask if she wants to go get something to eat. Since she was not doing anything and even left work early too, she kukuma went.

Somewhere during dinner, the guy tells her straight up that he wanted them to go back to his place so they could do the "do."...lol...Amber says she's stirring at this guy like his crazy or something and of-course she refuses. She's like she actually asked the guy back if what he said made any sense since that was the first time they were seeing after their initial meeting and yet he wanted to take her home for a screw.

She went on to give the guy a lecture on aids and all other sexually transmitted diseases (actually, she's kinda passionate bout that- i think she's originally from DC too so she usually has a lot to say). That he didn't even know what she carried and neither did she know what he was carrying and yet he wanted to take her home...lol...

Funny guy, told her he already knew the steps and since he had been talking to her, he was confident that she was clean...lol...The steps i asked and she explained..according to the guy,

the first date - a girl says no;
second date is still a no but she'll go home with him and make out
third date- is also still a no but with a little push, they'll get down to it.

I swear i bursted out laughing!!!

Amber said she was frantic!!! lol ...i thought it was funny...

Now Amber wants to know what ever happened to talking about solutions to world hunger and peace, politics, and society on dates?

I'm not much of a dater myself so i wouldn't know what conversation is appropriate but i bet it wouldn't or shouldn't be about going "home"

A while back i started putting up profiles of individuals in an attempt to help many, including myself, find love. I think most of the people that put up profiles were females and maybe we had 2-3 guys or something. Like too many other things i do, i truly didn't follow up on it. Not sure how i would have sef...when i started it, infact i had thought about doing albums with pictures and so many other ideas...lol...

Anyway, i recently got an e-mail that a gentleman (atleast i presume) was interested in a certain lady he had read her profile on here. We've been working on the logistics of what would follow after showing interest. I thought it was only fair for him to also put up a profile just incase a lady finds him interesting. Thus:

Age: 30
Sex: Male
Occupation: IT consultant
Religion: Xtian
State: Benue
Country: NIgeria
Age Range Partner: 24 - 30
Looking for lady : Within Nigeria (Any Part of the Country)

Well, we've moved on from that point...the lady being sort has accepted to communicate and thus we're doing it via e-mail to begin with....let's wish them luck....think it would be cool if something nice comes out of it!
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Unto other things

So i'm beginning to feel like i should be back in school doing something. What it is i should be doing or what i want to do is not completely clear to me. I've got a couple of options of what i think i should do and honestly, i think i'm officially confused.

See, i've got a second degree already. My thoughts in recent times have gone from going to do a Phd to going to get a second masters, to going to law school sef...or just go do some certifications....I had mentioned to the folks that i was going for an information session on a Phd program for one school and of-course the only thing they had to say is that they hope the guy won't run from me.

I know one thing for sure though, that i'm on the right part to whatever it is i want to do. Even though the situation is small right now but i've been having this thing in my mind that the experience i'm gaining from this "mini job" is preparing me and is going to be very very useful to me down the line.

Now, the funds to pursue this is another thing...but then again....i'm a BELIEVER...and nothing is beyond God!

Hmmm.....

Ok, my return here is even as bad. I really thought i would come everyday and update....really, i usually have the stuff in my head but the first chance i get to actually blog, i really don't remember what i was going to blog about.

Anyway, watched pretty woman last nite and by God! for some reason i can't get over that movie...regardless of how many times i see it. It's like my all time favorite sha...

Sometime last week, a friend of mine came online and we had this conversation:

friend:I am feeling real funny
schic :funny like how?
friend:I dont know what is wrong with me
schic: stomach? head?
friend: My former girl friend in Nigeria is getting wedded next week
friend:and i have been feeling real funny for real
friend:I did not tell mope(gf)though
friend:but it is really making me feel funny
schic: lool
schic:sorry to laugh
schic:but funny as in how?
friend:I dont know schic
friend: I dream abt her now
schic:like maybe it is u that should have been marrying her?
friend:no not like that
schic:hmmm...o ga oh, do u still talk to her? maybe u need to talk to her
freind:u see i dont know; yesterday unconsiously i went to pull out all her pictures from my pile
schic:if u had a really close relationship with her then it's kinda expected
freind: It was extremly close

o.k, i'm tired of trying to post the conversation and changing names. Anyway, the point is that his been really feeling somehow that his first love is getting married. Now, i want to say i understand the feelings but not completely. When the first guy i ever dated in here got married, i didn't feel anything because i was waayyyyyyy over him and had passed the wierd stage because his sister and i became very good friends and i still ended up at their house on a regular basis...even though the ending of the relationship was not very nice.

Now with this friend of mine, his got a very sweet fiancee. As in, even as a female, i can testify for the babe anytime. She's like the perfect wife material lots of guys would want. I've seen her submit to things that even i know i would never do for a man. I can't really explain it, but i sha know she's correct like that.... don't men always say they want submissive women?

So, this wierd feeling, i've been thinking bout it trying to justify that is it normal? I know guys are not usually sensitive but he still wants to talk bout it...i'm also wondering, should this kinda feelings be there if he himself is engaged to someone else?

hmmm...this post looks like it's long enough... have to come back and do a post on that hook-up thing i had going on here a while back...we may have a match...lol....

Can't remember whose blog now, but the person had made a good point about if bloggers ever wondered what happened to a blogger who has left blogsville...actually i think it was Mr. Tobenna....anyway, i'ld like to explain y i left temporarily, but honestly, there is no logical explanation. I think i just sort of lost it at a point...including visiting blogs...

Along the line, i found out that i'm the "world's worst most annoymous blogger" (quoting my cousin)lol. For anyone who had followed my blog long enough would know that i had written mainly about 3 guys in my life...F1,2, and 3. Well, to my disappointment, both F1 and 2 found the site. I don't remember writing anything majorly bad about them, thank God for that, but i guess it was still enough sha.... Funny i always had an inking that F1 knew the site or he would find it, and the way F2 found it is still most puzzling...lol... Anyway, i didn't think it was fair after a while, and as such have deleted every post related to them (or atleast i hope i have, i'll check again...hehehehe...)

I did miss my blog though! think i signed in every day! ok, i confess, i did a couple of posts while i was invisible....i deleted those too...hehehehehe....now, those were incriminating ones so NO WAY i could have kept them....

While i'm still annoymous to some, and to others, not, i figured i might as well open it back up....i like writing, and i've had days where events/incidents have happened and i've thought about coming to blog about it and then i just don't find the urge to when i get on the computer...but i think i'm back now for good! well, hopefully....

TGIF!!! Going out of town this weekend with family, hopefully that turns out well....still have not figured whose car we're using and who is doing the driving, yet we plan on leaving real early in the morning...hmmm....

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Something Wrong with me

There's got to be something wrong with me...How come everytime i see an extraordinary fine...and i mean fionnnnnnnnneeeeee dude, i'm unable to talk. 3 times is a confirmation of this fact.

First time was at work, this out of the ordinary extra nice looking guy with blue eyes came in and was asking a question that the person beside me directed to me. OMG, i was so stunned by him being a stuner that i could not answer rather began to stutter until the girl sha answered him sha...Till now, they don't let me get away with it here.

2nd time, i just smiled and could not even respond to the guy.

Yesterday, while at the grocery store, this really nice looking hottie was trying to make conversation with me...all i could do was smile. He later came to the same check out stop as i was and made a comment about my purchase...the fact that i had gotten some carrots and cucumbers in one hand, and also got a pound cake. Stupid me, all i could do was smile and nodd.

I'm usually bold and sharp like that but someone extra good-looking people leave me speechless.

But Why?

Being Good

Dang, i've missed blogging but there really is nothing for me to blog about anymore...

In the last 2-3 weeks i've been running into people and it's just made me remember why they say it's good to always be good...u never know...

this past weekend, someone called me and mentioned that they had asked someone if they knew me and all the person had to say were good things and all... that made me feel good...

Just today, was in the parking lot at work when i heard someone call me...she called me by the name they call me at work so i knew it was no one from my life outside of work...was tempted to ignore the person, but she kept calling.

i sha managed and turned around and it was Ms. Blessing. Ms. Blessing was this ibo lady in probably like her sixties that had done some volunteer work for us at work bout 3 yrs ago. Ms. blessing came from the east in nigeria to come and help her daughter who works round the clock take care of her kids. I guess while the kids were at school, she would get bored and so she decided she was going to do some volunteer work in the morning till the kids came back from school.

Ms. Blessing has one of the strongest igbo accents i've ever heard and constantly added igbo words to her daily conversations such as "biko" abeg, hep me take this" and this was done regardless of who she was talking to...i always thought it was funny.

For some reason, she's always thought i was from Jamaica and i never bothered to correct that notion but she sha felt good that i was a foreigner as well even though i didn't speak as thick as her because i was pretty much the only one who could understand her and was always interested in her stories and generally had information bout how she and her daughter can benefit from the system. One of her daughter's kids has down syndrome.

I came to work one day and while passing by one of the rooms, i saw Ms. Blessing sitting down crying...an old lady crying ke? i felt really sorry for her, asked her what was wrong...she was in some serious pain...her legs were in bad shape, she didn't know how she was going to work back home. Somehow i knew she had arthiritis. I think we had been talking bout sending my granmomsie some drugs just the nite before.

I sha went to the store and bought her some arthiristis medication ...and took her home...she lives less than 5 mins away. True to it, she came back the next day and was all excited and could not thank me enough. How she felt far better than she had in a while...

Today, since i was on my way out, i asked if i could drop her off at home...we gisted a bit more and by the time we got to her house she just kept thanking me and praying for me...i didn't even remember that event until she mentioned it...said since i didn't know her from adam and did that for her, God will send help my way too and some very nice prayers like that i sha needed...all inbtw calling me Nne...lol...and telling me how she got her stimulus check...lol...

After leaving Ms. Blessing, i started to think bout how good it felt to have done good...and was wondering when was the last time i did such? Well, i'm going to go look for someone to be out of the ordinary nice to...just for the sake of being nice!!! It feels good!!!

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This is one of the busiest periods for me at work and yet i'm sitting down here blogging...as in i have too many things to turn in and out, and infact i was just given an assignment due next week that if i had had enough time i would have simply refused the work with kinda good excuse sha...

anyway, i just remembered something and i know if i don't write it now, i will forget...i was talking to someone bout old times movies that i could actually watch repeatly without getting tired of them at the mention of some, i was amazed that the person had never seen them!

Most Nigerians i know have seen them, i guess we nigerians are very european in nature and all but some of these movies are just classics!

Some of my favorites include:

Annie
Sound of Music (yes the person has not seen this movie o, it sounds wierd to me, is that a problem or it's just me?)
Mary poppins
Mr. Holland Opus (wait is that rite? don't have time to check it now)
Pretty Woman (ok, in my own book it's a classic...makes me wanna fall in-love)

yeeee...gotto go, can't complete again...but do you have any movie you think is that good and you wanna share? I think i want to see some...

Stuvvs

I refuse to allow this week to be crappy... Na lie...when there is still a God...

Lost my freaking keys while galavanting across town trying to help a young lady find a prom dress. She didn't want her mum to help or take her so my cousin & I were stuck with this task! In one of the stores while owwing (for a minute we forgot the girl, she's too damn picky) over a pair of really really cute shoes, it just came to mind that i didn't have my keys...thus began the search from bout 8 something in the evening....well, still didn't find it even after we called emergency road service (let me help promote Geico, since accident is not my portion, atleast the yeye insurance money i'm paying them monthly paid-off for something) to come open the car maybe it would be inside as per my car locks itself after like 10 mins if u don't lock it. Sha had to wait for Y (thanks a million to him sha) for bringing down the spare keys...i feel bad that he was coming from somewhere about an hour and some minutes away from home, and then he had to drive another 35 minutes (i think he made it in twenty or less) to bring us the keys...anyway sef, his girlfriend was with us so he had too! lol...

then my yeye phone that fell down and all of a sudden is freezing now...jeez! and it's not even that old sef...and they warned me bout that phone ohhh...infact i'm putting them out there, it's a razor!

Ok, amongst other things... but i've refused to be upset and have a bad week sha!

Onto something lighter...

Princesa's dog's passing away just reminded me bout the dogs we used to have back at home a very long time ago. I think my whole family are dog lovers except me and we always had dogs.

one of them's generation went this way: and Cleo begat Beauty and Beauty Begat Yemisi!

Yes, Yemisi was the dog's name! I think we were taking too long in giving the dog a name or something and just called the puppy-"puppy". We were gisting in the kitchen one day when popsie's driver said the puppy looked the house-help at that time-Yemisi (all the other 5-6 were usually given away); ok, they all used to talk bout one another like that...we were not left out of the jokes too... Anyway, from that day on, he started calling puppy Yemisi.

Finally we figured a name for puppy-can't even remember the name now. As we began to call the puppy the name we realized that she didn't answer oh...but whenever the driver called her yemisi and made that whistiling sound...the puppy dey answer sha! Cut a long story short, household members, including the gateman started calling the dog Yemisi...well, we had no choice but to start calling the dog Yemisi! lol...

Daddy Schic

I love my daddy...

I'll start with the fact that i now know i'm ready for marriage for real! O.k well, atleast for one part sha- caring for someone else other than myself...since daddy schic has been around, i've surprised myself. I've woken up early enough rather than my usual time enough to take a bath, dress and run out. I've been getting up to make breakfast and then rushing back home in the evening to make dinner...While i'm doing it religiously, i'm so tired of it! I've run out of what to make for breakfast that can just be warmed in the microwave and still be ok. I'm also tired of having to rush home to make dinner abeg! You know how sometimes you just want to go home, take a shower and crawl under the sheets with a nice book or just watch tv or something rather than going on to start making eba, amala, poundo yam, fresh efo, or okro...well...only for a time sha...I actually told my younger sister how i was going to encourage the man to come spend time with her even though she shares her place with someone else, but for real ehnn, the man will starve over there. I'm sorry to say my sister can't cook much to save a life...

While we're still on daddy schic, i've decided that i need to have a child ASAP...ok, i've been thinking bout getting preggies beginning of next year, but the way i'm seeing things ehhnnn, it's pushing me to hurry up. Let me explain- daddy schic has 4 official grandkids. i say official because i have one brother like that u can never tell with him sha...we think he may have more than the three he has declared or are in the open...lol...Anyway, of the four, only one is with him in nigeria and they live under the same roof. Well, this trip, every single place we've gone to, i've heard too much of "ahhh! this will be good for "R" infact, of everything we've bought, i think "R" has the most stuff. Last saturday, he said he had gotten enough stuff for "R" o, na so we go one store yesterday, he still bought things for her...to think that R is going to be a big sister too very soon. On the other hand in naija, i heard "R" goes to granpa's door each morning knocking and shouting granpa, granpa, so they have to call granpa for her to talk to. Me i'm jealous abeg! "R" is not even two yet and she has that kinda hold on daddy schic...abeg, "R" back-off his my daddy..ki lo de? I know his your grandaddy, but i knew him first!

Oh yeah, it's sweet and funny that daddy schic does not realize that his girls are grown women oh! I mean, i'm really close to 30 (abeg, i no dey talk my age!) but let's just say that 1-3 yrs away from 30. My younger sister is in her early 20's sha, close to the middle. That's how Daddy schic is on the phone with someone talking bout "yes o, i came to see the children!" Another time i heard him arranging something with one of my older cousins saying yeah, the girls and i will come and spend the day.

Just this morning, i'm feeling like a babe and trying to look cute and all... i had my tank top showing below my other top, there goes the man asking me why i'm dressed like that? and his really trying to adjust it for me...i had to tell him that's what it's supposed to look like!lol...

Daddy schic's birthday will be while his still here...i'm thinking bout throwing him a small get-together or maybe we should all go out to dinner? I don't know jare...I think doing the get-together will be better sha...hmmm...

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Hello there...yeah, me too i had almost given up on this (good things take time i've heard) but some wonderful man sent me his profile...ladies feel free to contact him through me...and "him," if u're interested in any of the profiles, pls mail me...

Age: 31
Sex: Male
Occupation: Working (Computer Operation and Instruction) and Student LASPOTECH
Religion: Xtian
State: Lagos
Country: Nigeria.
Age Range Partner: 19yrs - 28yrs
Looking for lady : Within Nigeria (Any Part of the Country)


So u interested in this brother? e-mail me @ sassiechic@gmail.com

Ok, i dey come, i feel the urge to do one of those random posts...have no better gist....

I'M IT!

I've been tagged by princesa & Kpakpando to do the ‘Six quirky things’ So here it goes:

Rules:
1. Link the person who tagged you…
2. Mention the rules in your blog…
3. Tell about 6 unspectacular quirks of yours
4. Tag 6 following bloggers by linking them
5. Leave a comment on each of the tagged blogger’s blogs letting them know they’ve been tagged

oh, i still can't figure out this linking thing with the name rather than the site address...


I talk to myself: I have full back and forth conversation with myself. Not even in my head, loud so anyone nearby can actually hear me. I have these conversations if I find myself walking alone somewhere, in the car by myself, in my room, as long as I’m by myself sha, I’ll start talking back and forth.


I get extra domesticated when I’m worried: If I’ve got something on my mind, I could cook, bake a storm and then clean a whole house including the floors. Once I’m done, I sleep and I would usually feel better or have my worries pushed aside temporarily

I have an extremely wide imagination: I let my imagination run over aboard. Ok, for this one, I’ve heard that it maybe bad. I’m one of those people that say we’re on a roller-coaster, I’ll be thinking what if the thing stopped and we’re up? If I saw someone walking on the road I would be thinking: what is a bike just sped across and smashed this person. It goes both ways though; I’ve become a corporate millionaire in my head before and lived the life. I’ve lived a model life, and I’ve lived a wife of a correct pastor and the first lady of Nigeria-all in my head sha!


I’m never really get into anything: You know how people get into things, like some people really like shoes, some clothes, some wrist watches, etc…well, I’ve never really been one of those…regardless of what it is, I’m not a collector like that. (wait does this count as a quirky thing?)

I can blank out everyone else: I can be in a crowed place and still be by myself. As in no one will exist around. I’ll hold conversations in my head and if I try hard enough I won’t see the people really in my physical surroundings.

I’m just weird like that: I may have some double personality traits. I can be the most quiet and most shy person at one place and at another place i’m really out-going. I can also be really razz when I want to be and still spill out them correct fone when the need be…I prefer old fashion ways to these modern/civilization methods…I’ll rather write a letter than e-mail, I’ll rather fill out a form by paper than computer, I’ll rather talk to a real person than a silly pre-recorded vioce on the phone

Wow! I made it to 6, thought I would not be able to! Even though I’m still not sure if what I did is the rite thing sef. These things are hard and require a lot of thinking…jeezzz…

Ok, I’m too lazy to start tagging people abeg, besides I think everyone has done this already. So I simply tag the first 6 people to read this if they have not already done so. I’ll follow up by going on their blogs to inform them…so please leave me a comment so I know who to go leave a comment for. Oh, if u don’t have a blog, I volunteer my blog for you to leave a comment…lol…just send it to me via e-mail and I’ll put it up…easy abi?

Dear Mother

Dear Mother,

I had so many things to say to you, yet i can't find the words to pen them down. Apparently, those things just want to stay in my head.

Well, too many times i've wished you were here...all through the years and at different experiences or milestones in my life, i've silently wished you were here to share it with me. I honestly can't say what the difference would have been, but i'm sure you're looking down and seeing what a great job dad has done.

I 've wished you were here more in recent years than when i was much younger, i wish you were here now to answer my questions about this direction God is taking me...

19 years ago today, you decided you could not fight cancer anymore and you gave up to join the hosts of heaven.

I wish you had fought some more for our sake but i understand...

After the meeting today, i really really wish you were here to help me make the decision...

I hope that while you're sitting in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ, you're looking down and interceding on my behalf and asking God to show me the way...

Just writing

I'm so busy both at home and at work, yet i'm so out of my mind bored...i really need a more engaging social life for real...someone's response to that is that i need to get married...next level in life...hmmm...

Picked up daddy s.chic bout 2 days ago from the airport and since then it's been one thing or the other. The man does not even want to settle down sef...his explanation is that he went to go see mami (granma) before he left to tell her he was going away to see his girls and she asked when next we were coming to see her and he replied soon...her reply to that was that hmm"will they meet me at this rate?" Well, as a result, daddy s.chic feels like he needs to do everything he has to do real fast just in case...as if anything happens he has to go back right away...hopefully mami will still give us some time sha...

Oh, i've concluded that my sense of direction is really really poor. So airport is like an hour away from us oh...on the way back, y was i challenging the GPS thing? Once it said one way, i would say no oh, the place looks familiar, only to find out i really did take the wrong direction and i would hear "recalculating" from the Oyinbo voice.

Oh ladies, please look at the comments at the last profile. An anonymous lady put a comment up about how we should be open and allow younger guys in...please check it out...i kinda agree u know, but maybe the age must be like 1yr difference sha.
Dearest Ms. Omosewa also suggests maybe we should put e-mails up, but i think for some of us, that would be revealing our identity. If you want me to put ur e-mail up, please feel free to send me an e-mail indicating that.

I actually have a question i'm embarassed about asking, but it's a blog abi? I'm thinking out loud on computer and no one knows me like that-well, except for a few and the others(others u know urselves oh)...lol...but don't they say if u don't ask, u'll never know? Ok, i know someone is probably saying just ask the damn question! You sef you're u too like talk!

Anywayyyyy, i was just wondering, u know, with oral sex and all, many agree and many disagree...until i understand it, then i'll share what i believe...but my question is...

what pleasure do men get from going down on females? I'm just wondering if men just enjoy pleasuring the female, as in, is it her expression or the sounds she makes or something or they themselves derive a pleasure from it?

ok, don't condemn me yet ohh...i'm God-fearing but i'm still human...my mind is allowed to wonder abi? or it's a sin for wondering like that?

Ok, i'm going to go check with the pastor so i can pray for forgiveness...lol...but u know, one pastor said one time like this that if a man is not married by the time his 30, please let's ask him where his putting his "thing." So i'm guessing conversations like that are only human...

ok, me dey go abeg...done enough rambling... i have a meeting that i may fall asleep in now...

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Profile #7

Age: 30
Sex: Female
Occupation: Business Analyst
Religion: Born again Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: US (moving to nigeria in October) unless....:-)
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 30-38
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: US or Nigeria
Interests: music, love travelling and photography
Would you like to describe yourself? Chocolate coloured, tall, slim, fun, kind-hearted, quiet at first but opens up when i get comfortable
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Genuinely God fearing, hardworking, kind-hearted, ambitous, tall, willing to commit.

Wanna know more bout this lady? e-mail me at sassiechic@gmail.com

Come, where are the dudes for real??????? Don't be shy abi it's intimidated...

Pranks

Today for some reason i remember how much pranks i was involved in as a child. Now that i thik about them, was actually involved in some really serious ones that could have hurt people but we didn't thik about the implications as kids.

Ok, please tell me that we just were not wierd in my household. ok, scenerio: if someone is calling me, i'll hide behind the door and when the person comes through i scare them by shouting "gba" "gboa" or something silly like that. Does that ring a bell? U don't even have to be called, just hide and scare anyone coming around sha...

Well, that was the case in my household a very long time ago. We had this young house-help then that used to swear that no one was ever going to get her, u know "i ain't never scare!" kinda attitude...lol... True to her word, no one could ever get her, but she always got us good. Climb up the stairs, and she'll be hiding waiting to say "gbo," Enter into the kitchen and she's a in corner waiting to scare you...turn on the stairs in the bedroom and she'll appear and scare you...infact it got to a point that my cousins and i decided that we had had enough and we were going to get her real good.

So this particular day, she was left to make sure all the doors were securely locked as usual. She had cut off the lights and all and gone upstairs.

Two of my cousins and i came back downstairs, one had powder covering her face and wearing black, the other was completely covered up to the face with a white bedsheet and i had a black and white one covering me up. An aunt who was on this with us, sent her back downstairs to get something for her. Moment she cut the lights back off, we appeared looking like some real scary ghost and making funny noises, My cousin proceeded to call her name 3 times like you would see in some of those yoruba homevideos, asked her to kneel down and she must not scream, while the rest of us went on with our hmmmmmmm noises.

Men, this girl was dying, she was crying like the world was coming to an end, she was shaking, and begging altogether, can't remember what story my cousin formulated for her sha but i remember the end was that she should put her head down so that we can disappear and she must not say a word about our appearance sha...we ran upstairs and waited for her to come up...the girl ran like she had truly seen spirits, but we burst out laughing as soon as she got in...we got her real good! I thought that was funny...but now i think it could have been an expensive joke sha, what if she had a heart attack or something?

Another case, we had friends visiting from the Gambia. I had met the man a couple of times, but this was the first time i was meeting his daughters from two different mothers and about the same age as me. Very funny, the girls and i bonded very well, like we had known each other forever. Anyway, one of them, let's call her A, told me the other one-B, slept like a log of wood through anything. Of-course, i wanted to put it to the test and A was willing to prove it to me. It was actually A's plan. the three of us slept in the same room that nite after talking for many hours. Of-course B was the first to fall asleep. We waited for about 30 mins after she was asleep, then went into the bathroom and started running water. A lighted a newspaper and put it through B's noise/face briefly and we started to shout fire! fire! fire!

Best to believe that B woke up, looked at us and went rite back to sleep. Actually, i doubt if she really woke up sef, she just turned around and looked and slept back...lol...

Oh gosh, i think i have a few more, but i just remembered i had to prepare and send some tests to the scoring center...God help me, they may not come back before parent conferences....

I'm really calling for trouble with this blogging habit. As much as i like blogging, i don't even blog at home. I only like it here at work....

Oh, did i mention i just joined facebook like 2 or 3 weeks ago and i can actually say there is nothing to it. I'm not addicted! I actually like my blogsville instead!!!

Ok, i'm outie!!!!

Yippeee!!! Profile # 6

Yes Ladies, we finally have a man put up a profile, and even better, he has expressed interest in one of the profiles...if it's your's you'll know soonest...hahaha...but ladies, if you're also interested in knowing more bout this guy, please feel free to holla at me.... Here goes it!!

Profile # 6

Age: 31
Sex: Male
Occupation: Brand Consultant/Publisher
Religion: Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 25 - 30
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Anywhere
Interests: Reading, Writting, Contemporary Jazz
Would you like to describe yourself? Not so Light skinned, used to be atlethic Built, not exactly Tall, mostly Fun, usually principled & frightfully ambitious... oh and I am cute!
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Cool, calm & collected- A lady. Good sense of style, purpose-driven and a sense of Humour - oh and cute too!

Stuvvs

HMMMM...

People, please allow me to express that "there is a God!"

I have a testimony: "And we overcame by the blood of the lamb and by the word of our testimony"

So bout a week or two now, i was being hunted for money oh! It came to an embarassing point where those idiot debt collectors even started calling me at work, thank God it was me they were getting directly...lol...(now i can laugh about it)

Well, i was determined not to let my spirit be completely down so i kept "believing" but the honest truth was that i knew 1k5 was not going to drop from nowhere. Ok, i was down at some point, i think i made mention of it somehow, because i remember going out and treating myself to a couple of new outfits, and a pair of shoes,(yeah bad idea abi, it would esp since i needed money, the trust me, the amount would not have paid my debts) Even though i knew the money was not going to come, i was determined i was not going to borrow either. Abi, borrowing again to pay off one gbese is not the solution. And truly, for one of my gbese's that is automatic deduction, it was the bank's fault oh, they threw me off and me i thought i had money in the account i kuku ma started spending...only for them to call me and say almost a month later and say a payment did not go through...Men! that step me back big time!

School had sent third notice...lol... and next step was to send to debt collection which would acrue another 17% on the amount...I was just thinking abi who sent me to school now...diploma dem no wan give me sef...I think i had posted them enough and it was finally time to pay off...let me add that i've not exactly started reaping/benefiting for that added degree oh...

Well, s.chic's brother was supposed to be the last resort sha, but since i've not spoken to him in a minute and i even missed his birthday i had still not devised how i was going to get him to give me the money oh... i said give yeah, not borrow...atleast if not all, pay one of my gbese's... I really like brothers sha, wonder if it's the same with sisters...i can truly obtain from my brothers.

Earlier this year, one of my brothers gave me money for new pair of glasses, call it my b/day present. Well, the good sister i am, i kuku ma spent the money, ok i can justify it, i did business with it...The thing is, he never asked if i had even gotten the glasses sef, but please why did daddy s.chic ask every single time he called? I was almost going to tell him "ki lo de?" are you the one that gave me the money?...but since he himself is coming real soon, i had to go find money again and get new frames ohhh...

Anyway, i digressed, sorry. Somehow, the amount i needed and a tart bit more came to look for me when i least expected...thanks to "uncle sam." (my tax returns)

So, really there is a God!
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Unto other things... Some colleagues & I had a conversation a long time ago about this, and i didn't believe when one of the girls said it happened to them...but it's finally happening to me.

You want to know what? Ok, i'm shy, i'm ashamed to say it sef, but i've starting getting pre-menstrual horniness... As in, i know my period is coming because i start to feel horny...

Please abeg, tell me i'm ok and it does happen.

I've come to the conclusion that i need to get married and have unaccountable sex at this stage in my life. When i say unaccountable sex, i don't have to feel guilty that i'm having sex outside of wedlock and the fact that i'll be having it with my husband, rather than the available man just because i'm horny.
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So, our profiles, i've had different responses to it. I just wanted to clarify that the ladies on here so far are not "desperately" in a bad way looking. We are just opening our options up since we may not be in a position to meet people all the time like that and for other different reasons.

If i could get anyone reading this to make a mention of it on their blog it would be much appreciated. I'm actually looking for guys that i know are serious in my personal life as well to add to it but the problem is i would be exposing my blog, which actually i already did to a personal friend to get her profile up.

Ok, i think i've talked enough for now jare...

ps: one more thing before i go... was playing catch-up with a friend of mine and she was asking me for advice and i really could not help her. So there is this guy she's talking to now, problem is the guy used to talk to her friend at one point. Her friend is no longer in the state and they've both moved on since long time ago sha. Anyway, so she knows all their history because she and the friend used to be real close at some point...but the guy is expressing serious interests, as in marriage interest...so is it ok for her to date him? does she have to ask her friend? I told her i would have to go consult with awon temi (my own) and get back to her..lol...see how dry my real world is? You my beautiful readers are my own!

Anyway, what do you all think?

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Profile #5

Age: 26
Sex: Female
Occupation: Lawyer

Religion: Christian

Faith: Pentecostal

Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria

State: Delta

Age range of partner you seek: 27-32

Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Nigeria PLEASE

Interests: like music and traveling

Would you like to describe yourself? Light skinned, tall, on the petite side, serious minded, very principled.

Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Fun loving sensitive but above all, loves God

Interested in this lady? please e-mail sassiechic@gmail.com

Surprise

Eyaaa, they almost got me teary eyed today...

I can't believe they actually planned a surprise at my job and it worked! If anyone knew these people, you would understand that they could not keep a secret to save their lives.

So, we have this fund they call the sunshine fund-you know, the one where we contribute an amount monthly into to celebrate birthdays, showers, deaths, etc to co-workers or should in case the need arise sha... For birthdays, we would usually celebrate it during our monthly staff meeting. Well, this year they missed my b/day and since i'm usually personal bout it i did not announce myself either except for a few of them that knew me like that.

The lady in-charge of sunshine fund apologized when she found out like in March that they had missed my b/day in January, since i had also not contributed to the funds this year, it was ok!

Well, today they decided to surprise me... some staff of the month kinda thing in addition to my b/day they say! First i saw flowers on my table when i first got in this morning, i was still wondering who was the person i had sent that bought flowers and could not find anywhere else to put it-yeah, i'm not big on flowers. Since they were actually pretty, my last thoughts bout them was to tell one lady like this that likes flowers to please take them or put them somewhere else sha. They actually bought food, enough for everyone and cake, and i get to leave at 4 rather than 5:30p.m. not much abi- but it's something since i'm sleepy sef...

The small but mighty lady herself gave a not so touching short speech about how much i'm appreciated and all that. I'm just glad she mentioned the fact that i do all the out of my job description things and how much they appreciate that. Atleast now i know she knows!

Anyway, thought it was nice, surprised that no one even mentioned it especially the loud mouth Ms. A that can't keep a secret! lol

On another note, i was reading someone's blog and something actually struck me, she had mentioned that she found love-well more like happiness in the least expected place, as in she had the idea of everything she wanted in a man-including the fact that he was nigerian...well, all of what she wanted came in a different package being that the guy is african american...I guess her point was that we should leave ourselves open and some of our ideas about an "ideal" mate for us may just not be in our reality. Huff!

Also on another note...for the ladies, how to make a "bloke" fall in-love - http://naijabloke.wordpress.com./ from a man's perspective - check it out, i'm not sure if i completely agree with all the points though though but they are good points nevertheless...

Outie...

Age: 26
Sex: Female
Occupation: Engineer
Religion: Muslim
Faith: Islam
Resident Country: London
Country of Origin: The Gambia
State: Banjul
Age range of partner you seek: 28-34
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in yourcountry of residence or anywhere: London is my preference.
Interests: I like music, theatre, reading, writing, socializing, and a good dance too
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so brieflyI am confident, outgoing, passionate, loyal and kind.
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain: Someone of my own faith will be easier but I like a challenge!! So is open minded about that.

Interested in this young lady? please send an e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com...

emmm...excuse me, where are the men?????????

Profile #3

Age: 27
Sex: Female
Occupation: Sales Executive
Religion: Christian
Christianity Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: U.S.
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Osun State, Ilesha
Level of Education: Masters degree
Age range of partner you seek: 27-36
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Anyway, North America is an added bonus though
Interests: God, writing, spending time with family & friends, listening to music, singing
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly: 5'10, slim, dark skin, creative, fashionable Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:-God fearing, affectionate, confident, simply- want a man that would still woo me after marriage.

Interested? please send e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com

excuse me, can we get some men here pleaseeeeeeee??????????

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Profile # 2
Age: 28
Sex: Female
Occupation: Scientific WriterReligion:
ChristianityFaith: Baptist
Resident Country: Canada
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Ondo State
Level of Education: Bachelors degree
Age range of partner you seek: 29-34
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: North America is my preference
Interests: writing, reading, spending time with friends, listening to music, dancing
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly: 5'6, plus sized, medium skin tone, wear glasses, enjoy laughing and making people laugh, creative
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:-A Christian man who lives what he believes-university educated and gainfully employed-confident without being cocky-good sense of humour-taller than 5'6 and not too skinny

Interested in this person? please send an e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com

Profile

Profile # 1

Age: 27
Sex: Female
Occupation: Administrator
Religion: Christian
ChristianityFaith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: US
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Oyo State
Level of Education: Masters degree
Age range of partner you seek: 28 - 36
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Interested anywhere

Interests: cooking, reading novels, organizing events, politics

Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly:Average height, bout 5"4, dark skin, average size. Got some curvy stuvs...lol, ok, good sense of humor

Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:A Christian - God-fearing must not just be a church goer please, must have fear of God, sense of humor.

You think you might be interested in this person? send an e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com for step 2 - see a pic.

Relationship

Hmmm… this week has been really challenging men! Still I “PRAISE.”

Song I’m singing: Praise is what do…
I vow to praise you
Through the good and the bad
I’ll praise you
When I’m happy or sad
I’ll praise you
In all that I go through
Because Praise is what I do
And I owe it all to you…

Ok, that of my chest…unto other things…

As much as people are getting married, I’ve noticed that there are actually about the same number of people looking for a partner to settle down with…well amongst us women oh…not too sure bout men as there are people getting married.

I’ve been round a couple of blogs and I know there are genuine women and men out there for some reason or the other have just not found the right “person.” Is there really a right person?

I’ve got a couple of friends who are looking to settle down and I think at this point I want to blame it on the environment abi what else? Young, beautiful, intelligent, hardworking, ladies. So if we are all that, why can’t we find men abi? Well, I’m asking the same question. I have a particular friend that even me I’m guaranteed she would make the perfect wife…far better than me I must say because she’s submissive to a fault as long as I’m concerned, caring, and romantic, Yet she’s still not found the “one” if there is something like the one.

I think this search or quest for a partner could have been much easier and less trouble if some of us of a certain age group, for females usually from 24, and for men, I think 28 are not under the pressure from our family members and others. It only gets worse when our age mates are tying the knot, marrying, jumping the broom and whatever else it is called.

I’ve read about different crazy ways people meet including facebook and HI5 so please don’t kill the idea. Nothing is impossible! You just never know!

Well I was thinking maybe this blog could help. (not like there is a lot of traffic here, but maybe I can have anyone reading it to actually tell others they know to come and add their profile).

The idea is to have people put up a brief profile. It’s nameless; we’ll use numbers for names. Now if anyone finds a profile that interests them and they want to further communicate with the person, they send me an e-mail on the condition that they also put a profile out. Individuals can decide not to want another person to reach them based on their profile.

Now, the next step after first interest would be to exchange pics. If one is no longer interested after pic, then no further information will be passed across.

Now, please on a very serious note, only those who are looking for relationships that may lead to marriage should apply. Sorry, but females under 21 and below may not apply, and men 24 and below may not apply well, unless you have an older sibling.

So, Profile Questions as follows:
Profile # 1

Age:
Sex:
Occupation:
Religion:
Faith: Presbyterian Pentecostal Catholic J. Witness Others
Resident Country:
Country of Origin:
State:
Age range of partner you seek:
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your
country of residence or anywhere:
Interests:
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly


Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:

e-mail (will not be displayed on the profile page)

Are there any other specific questions you ask when trying to meet someone for the first time?


Please send your profiles to this e-mail address – sassiechic@gmail.com and it will be added on. Anyone interested in any of the profiles, also send e-mail to the above address.

Ok this I think should be interesting and fun…spread the word and let’s see how it goes…

One of them days

It's one of those days when i'm at work and have so much work to do and i'm still bored and don't feel like doing jack.

I'm down for a couple of reasons yet i give all the glory to God sha..."This too shall pass" hmmm

Was looking through one of those magazines from home, i forget the name now...but why was there an ad that read:

"41 years old, good-looking, well to do man seeking cripple for relationship that will lead to marriage. Promise to make you happy. " proceeded to leave calling number.

Is it just me or that wierd? I thought about the options and it's sad to say my yoruba movie watching self had the better of me. Maybe the man had been told he must marry a cripple for some reason? then again, maybe the man has a disability himself?

Of-course there is nothing wrong in being crippled...ok, there is something wrong...wo! u sha get the gist! it's not just a normal request for marriage but of-course everyone is entitled to getting married and being happy. It was just wierd sha...

On another note, i'm thinking bout leaving my own hair out more often oh!!! I'm one of those people that hardly wear my own hair. As in if i take my braids out on friday after work, by saturday i've replaced it with another one or with weave. I don't think anyone outside my house has seen my hair like that in a long time. Fuuny thing is it's not even for the sake of fashion oh...it's just convinient, maybe i can also call it laziness. The fact that i have to wake up each morning and go to work is already a bother for me, I wake up in enough time to be at work at the right time and many times i'm still late sef, so taking the time to do hair or think about what to do to the hair each morning does not just cut it for me. As such, i'm good with the braids.

Anyway, i was so tired of my last "fake" hair that i took it out in the middle of the week. I thought i'ld do Ghana weaving next and the lady who is going to hook it up was booked for last week. So i had to carry my hair oh since last week thursday. Funny thing is i've gotten quite a bit of compliments and attention since then. Someone at work actually told me she thought i didn't even have hair sef...the funniest compliments have come from some older men.... "oh look at you young pretty lady, you look different." " You're beautiful, u know that? you should wear your hair down more often" The man that said that just put a smile on my face since i was down sef. It's sad that both of them are too old and they are old flirts at that...hmmm....

Oh, so the story i started, i thought someone was going to add to it. I was expecting someone to mention how predictable it was, someone read it and told me he knew where i was leading to....but m & b's are usually predictable so it's ok... I've lost the zeal to write it though, see why i'm not a writer, but maybe i'll pick up somehow though....

Wo, let me go and finish this day somehow jare...

Book/Writing

Mope was in much of a lighter mood than she had been in the last couple of weeks. She was just too glad to have gotten this job as rotten and as below her as the job was, a whole college graduate. She had been down to her last couple of naira and worried about how she was going to make her share of rent at the one bedroom unit she shared with Stella Marcus at Alhaji’s face-me-I-face-you set of units.

She had no doubt that this time alhaji was going to insist on his payment in “kind” rather than giving her the usual couple of extra days, as he had warned her the last time in his annoying Yoruba accent “no more estra dazzs after this month, after this time, you will use ya sef to pay d money fine girl like you.”

Just the thought of Alhaji made her cringe. There was no way she could even allow the man to touch her. Alhaji could always be found in the balcony of his building next door regardless of the time of day; Mope always wondered if the man had anything else in his life to do. In the mornings one could see him without a shirt and a wrapper wrapped around his beer-drinking potbelly chewing his chewing stick and spitting right out regardless of who was standing down at the bottom. He watched everyone one going in and coming out of the units like a hawk looking for preys. Constantly making insulting or not so funny comments to one person or the other and trying to sweet talk a young girl to come up to him.

Mope had been so busy in her thoughts she did not realize that someone else had entered the office. She was taken aback for a minute by the sheer handsomeness of the figure standing by the file cabinet inspecting a file. He was dressed up in something she figured could not be less than a custom made suit made only to fit that beautiful frame. She was still regaling in his handsomeness when he looked up from the file he was holding…

“good afternoon to you too, and thanks for the compliment” Mope looked down embarrassed at the fact that she had been caught in the act of stirring.

She curtsied, “I’m sorry sir, good afternoon, but what compliment sir?"

“the one your eyes were giving me.” Tega said, looking her up from head to toe, with eyes that looked like they could see through layers of clothes until they got to the barest of skins.

Mope was appalled and irriated quickly; she could tell he was arrogant and egotistical…

“emm, excuse me but just because you’re in a suit that looks good on you does not mean that you should look at me like I’m less human in what I have on”

“ahh… so you do agree I look good? Tega said with a dragging rich laugh. I’ve not seen you around here before, what’s your name?”

“that’s because I’m new, and I didn’t say you look good either, but I’ll get out of your way right about now, I was told to start cleaning this office as it was currently empty, by the way, what are you doing in here as well? I was told the MD and only a few other executive staff members are allowed to be in this room, I hope you’re not trespassing because I’ll be quick to report it because if anything goes missing, I won’t be blamed. And besides I can’t afford to loose this job now."

“Don’t worry, I’ll report myself if anything gets missing, I got permission to look over some documents. By the way, you still have not told me your name."

"Why are you so concerned about my name, I’ll just be right out of your way Mope said walking out of the office."

Writing

Hmmm.... missed this space for a minute! I think i've lost that blogging spirit though... I've got quite a bit to rant about but i don't even know where to start and where to end and maybe a part of me can't put up personals anymore...

So i was having a bit of a lazy saturday and while sitting infront of the computer thinking either to blog-as in read other people's blog or to jejely go and read a book, or finish up my cleaning that i've been putting away for a while now. I was thinking bout what i was going to do with my drawer filled with Halequine presents books, some mills & boon, halequine romance, etc. My mind went back to those days when it was an addiction- how sad huh? I remember starting off early too, i think many nigerian families made their children cultivate a reading habit because i remember sharing famous fives and all the rest of those books. Finally got introduced to the nigerian version books like pacesetters, etc...

Well i was thinking bout all of this and how i've read some bloggers beautiful writings such as Ms. Vera, Ms. Bimby lads, Ms. Catwalq, Ms. Allied and i wondered how they did it. I always wanted to write but doubt i ever finished one single story sef...it just seemed like too much thinking....lol...yeah, i'm lazy like that....

Anyway, i was bored so i thought i'ld start again atleast this time i can put it up here rather than on paper... It may not even be completely original sef as in after many years of Lynn Graham, Danielle Steele, Sidney Sheldon, and Nora Roberts...hmmm...what do u expect? but it still comes from my head sha!

Only now, i'm just doing it for the fun of it.... the story may never get finished as usual, it may not even make sense at some point.

Maybe i can get people interested though. As in people like me that want to write but can't really write...we can collaborate u know.... how about i start it off and anyone reading feel free to add the next paragraph, chapter, line, whatever it is and we can finish a complete book.

It could be funny, serious, dramatic, tragedic (is that a real word?) anyway, u get the gist.... just came to my mind now.... how exciting!!!!!

So i'm posting up the first part... please feel free to add even if it's a line or tell me where to make changes to give it more effects.... like in describing a person or a place or thing....

As we go along, any reader may also feel free to give it a name because i have no idea either...

Just thinking

This weekend, an uncle told me i had been included in his Will, i laughed about it reminding him that those were not the kind of things he told people (yeah, thanks to my yoruba movie watching self) just in-case... he was actually going to show it to me but i said no, his not supposed to show it to me either. I could not help but wonder though what he had left for me. A house in nigeria? some money? the house here in the states (as long as it's debt free sha) don't know what else he has that is of value like that, or like he would always tease " to you schic, i leave my dirty clothes and underwear."lol.. hmmm... i wonder.... i just wonder....(anyone remember 3rd eye? or atleast i think that's what it was called) but it's nice knowing someone likes me enough to leave me something... pray God keeps him till old age though...

Oh yeah, about 2-3 weeks ago, attended a singles and couples dinner function hosted by the church. One of the activities they had was that one where they had one partner answer questions about the other that they had previously asked the other. Which brings me to asking -

How much should we really know about our significant other?

I personally don't ask a lot of questions about things unless i'm told and don't think i'm into details like that. They asked some very funny questions that had me wondering if i'm supposed to actually know all that. Some, i'm certain i should know but others where just out of it.

They asked one lady what primary school her husband went to? she got it wrong.
They asked a guy what was his mother-in-law's maiden name? (this i still think is a little too much abi?) of-course he had no clue.
They asked another lady how she knows when her husband is trying to get some (i thought that was funny) She said he would stay home the whole day...lol.... sure got it right.
They asked the same lady her husband's best friend, she mentioned someone else but her husband had put down her...lol...
They asked this the last time they went out by themselves, dude could not remember o, but i really don't blame him sha.. i'm sure his bothered with making sure his family is alrite. The same guy they asked what was his wife's boss's name. I think he got that wrong too... but should he really have known that? and remember for that matter. At the end the wife has some funny look, and everyone kept teasing that they still had a lot of work to do after 3 yrs and he could only answer about 2 questions right out of like 6.

So i know i should know everything about my significant other but somethings i didn't even think about, like the mother-in-law's maiden name i think is a bit far-fetched... Right?

Easter

I’m sorry that for a minute I became one of those people that had forgotten the real meaning of Easter. An older friend of mine had mentioned something about a get-together for Good Friday and as usual got excited about an opportunity to socialize until another friend suggested that Good Friday was not a good day to have a party. More like it was a time for reflection. Even though I argued lamely that we had been redeemed, the same excuse I gave for not following the lent fast; I knew that I had to take a minute and check myself.

The true meaning of Easter, like Christmas for those of us following the Christian faith has been lost amidst all the bunnies, candies, baskets, the bright colors of spring, etc. For some reason I knew I needed to be sober to reflect. This year so far I’ve not been the best of Christians as I was last year and maybe I need to get myself together “God forbid I miss heaven!”

Today I ponder and imagine the suffering, the pain, the agony, the disgrace that my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ went through just so that my dumb ass doesn’t roast in Hell. I imagine the amount of blood he shed while being beaten just so that atonement can be made for all those stupid sins that I allow my body to commit constantly; that same blood that still cleanses when I humble myself enough to ask him to please forgive me again and again.

I imagine my Lord on the Cross of Calvary, his head down, his neck probably broken along with every other bone/rib in his body, nails drenched into his palms like a dangerous, mental criminal, yet he was blameless, he had not committed any of the sins he was accused of. Yet He bore it ALL! A sacrificial lamb – “THE LAMB OF GOD.”

Oh but how wonderful is He, yes he died, but then he ROSE again on the third day just so that all what he had been saying and the scriptures be fulfilled. He even appeared to many- eat and drank with them and after 40 days He left again to that beautiful place I must make – HEAVEN.

I wanted to watch the movie “Passion of the Christ,” but I couldn’t bring myself to, yet today I REMEMBER!

Feel free to read these Scriptures.

Matthew 27 & 28, Hebrews chapter 9, Leviticus chapter 4, Isaiah chapter 53

"They"

Let me first of all use the opportunity to welcome back Miss. Vera. One of the few people i read so diligently at work when i should have been doing proper work and how i came about starting my own blog- SHE'S BACK! and she says she's back for good! We'll see about it- A beautiful write i must add (no, i don't know her personally o) She's also been kind enough to correct my detective watching, name unknowing series. So it's not CSI I watch, it's law and order. I sha knew it was the one with Mr. Big and that SVU one ( I actually put SUV again before i saw it, na wa o).

Anyway, with that said, I could have sworn Prince had gotten the message. After not speaking to him for like a week. Unfortunately i was at a friend's place yesterday when my phone rang and since i was too lazy to even get up, my friend picked it up and it happened to be Prince. After the little pleasantries and all, i promised to call him back when i got home. My friend rite there challenged me that i should not have lied to the guy because we both knew i was not going to call him back. She knows my bad habits like that. I say i'll call u back to get off the phone a lot. Anyway, i told her i was really going to call him back sha. I figured that's the least i can do for the guy as he really would make a good friend.

Inspite of my being tired and all, i managed to call him sha. One thing i don't like is people beating around the bush. I mean, we're adults and have a right to say whatever as long as it's not offensive and rude to another rite? But not prince o! Prince would say things like so talk to me, and i'll be like about what? His usual answer is u know now? Abeg i be winch? am i supposed to know what his thinking? I've told him repeatedly that i'm open to conversation-don't call having sex-doing that thing, don't just say what's up when u're really trying to find out what is wrong with a situation. You make vague conversations, i reply vaguely too. Anyway, we were having that kind of conversation when i finally asked when you say what's up are u still refering to with both of us? As i had given different kind of excuses in the past, i told him straight up that i don't think it can work because am not at a point in my life to commit to long distance (ok, that one is a lie, but i don't want one with him) Told him i was open in the beginning because i thought i could do long distance but the effort is weighing me down and i can't and don't want to do again. Na so Prince say No o!!! That since i have put in effort in the first place, i must put in more effort now. Abeg what have i put myself into????????? I had to end with the need for me to go to sleep immediately. I was too irritated.

Unto another issue on my mind jare. About two weeks ago i was talking to a friend when she mentioned that her sister had taken some issues to prayers and "they" had told her she was have difficulty finding a husband and subsequently having kids as well. I remember when i was wayyyy younger, an aunt that used to live with us came back from her mum's town and told me she had taken the names of some men to prayer as in regards to marriage and "they" said it was to be a particular man. A very good friend of mine here as well calls home every time she is in a relationship so "they" can pray about it and there is always a response back if the guy is the one or not.

Those are only a few of the situations i've heard that "they" came back with a message from God. Honestly, I love God with a passion and as such respect men of God but i don't understand the aspect of "they." My friend asked me one time if i gave the name of the guy in my life to my father to go and pray about it and find out. Now they've been many situations from being in this country that whenever i speak to popsie he just says, well, we're praying about it and God is going to do it. Now popsie is really into God like that. Infact his one of the something for one of the biggest pentecostal assemblies in Nigeria but the most i've heard him say to a situation is that "ahh, we even prayed about the situation at our Elders Home Fellowship" or say pastor and i prayed about it. Infact the height of it has been that him and GO had prayed about it at some point.

Ok, i just lost my complete train of thoughts for this post. But i guess i was trying to understand the biblical aspect and rightness (is that a word?) of "they." In Situations i've had trying, i found that i can seek the face of the Lord in prayer and fasting and a little quiet time. Many times, i 've asked God to confirm something for me with a particular situation by asking for something else to happen and it has worked in the past. I've shared prayer requests with fellow brothers/sisters in Christ and all that and i've actually had a couple of prayer partners tell me a dream or message they had about me or a situation we had prayed concerning.

But i still don't understand "they."

CSI

I need to be stopped! I've made it a habit to stay up and watch reruns of CSI. I especially like Criminal Intent-i think that's what it's called, the one with Mr. Big from Sex and the City? I also like Special Victims Unit (SVU). I think i called it SUV for the longest time my sister got irritated with it...lol...

Anyway, last night, that was the last thing i watched before sleeping off, but abeg someone tell me why i had a complete dream of some Criminal Intent Stuff? I can't remember the full gist sha, but i remember i was one of the investigators with an oyinbo man as my partner. It was a nigerian case that had us traveling to nigeria as part of the investigation sha. I woke up laughing and sorry for myself...lol. I even remember having black pant suit on with dark sunglasses even stopping by popsie and all that...

The dream kuku finished with us solving the case... it's unfortunate i can't remember the details of the case...

Females

As a woman myself, i love the power we hold as women but can't understand why some of us don't know how to handle it.


So there is this girl called "P." She's really one of my closest male friends sister so by default sha we know each other especially since i'm much older than her (recently, it's been hard to call her a friend like that). Sometime last year, am at drama practice at church when P calls me. Her brother is rite there as well and she begs, i must not let him know she's the one on the other end. I asked to just call her back when i'm done but before i'm even done, she's called me back like twice.


I finally call her back on my way home. P is on the phone weeping real hard. "S.Chic, i don't know who else to call, i don't really have any friends since i've been dating Mr. V i've not really been close to any one but Mr. V and i just broke up and i need to talk to someone."


I really don't know what to say to things like this especially since P had never called me for anything before that and if she really knew me, i would be the last person she would call. Maybe every now and then i'm at their house and we're all gisting but she's never gone out of her way to call me. Anyway, out of the goodness of my heart i said "sorry o what happened, feel free to talk i'll just listen (abeg is this what people say in such situations?)


After her small whining sha, i told her if she wants her man back she can get him back...lol... (don't ask me abeg i don't know how she was going to) told her worse thing she'll eat humble pie and beg the dude, she'll cook and take it to him if need be, she'll call as often as she can, u know, things like that. Oh, yeah so Mr. V is a much older guy, don't know exactly how old but we all call him Mr. V so that we're not calling him uncle or anything silly like that,and as per our yoruba culture, we all used "e" for him (which is how we refer to older people as a sign of respect...


Later that nite, P calls me back again saying she wanted me to be on the phone while she was talking to Mr. V so that i'll see why he won't listen to her pleas. Well, she gets Mr. V on the phone begins to beg him for another chance, talking bout how they can go for counseling together, she's asking for 21 days (please me sef i'm asking 21 days for what?), how she promises to change and all that... it was all too funny sha.(Me sef, i'm beginning to realize that i have no real work to do..lol)


By the time she was done talking and Mr. V started his own talking... i was ashamed to claim this girl for real. I mean i'm not saying don't sleep around if u can't help yourself, it's ur cross carry it abeg but please don't sleep with the same group of guys that u know they know each other and word will get around especially if they are all nigerians in a small community! This was P's story. Unfortunately the first time they put it to the guy's face he forgave her, this time he could not take it anymore. He just said a whole bunch of things sha. How if his going out she's whining and complaining bout him going out to meet other guys but she was roaming around the street like Bingo on heat and on the loose. After guy had said his peace, i know it was his peace and even i felt it for him because I never knew Mr. V was a stutterer, this man stuttered/stammered all through and that's how i knew he was angry. Guy sha finally agreed to give her time for some reason.

That was the last i heard from P again.

This year- day after Val's day, P calls me crying. Mr. V is going out of town with another female and he had the guts to come and collect the camera he gave her to take with him...lol... I didn't know it was over again. I had seen Mr. R at the house earlier in January. Infact while a couple of us were downstairs gisting Mr. V and P were in her bedroom. She sounded so devastated i went over her place after work. (I'm nice like that)

P has apparently been seeing a therapist. I'm thinking this girl na wa oh. I was convinced we had tougher skin as per naijas but i guess i was wrong. She totally broke down when i got there. The whole 3 years they were dating they never did anything for val's day. First year his dating this new chick, they are going out of town for the weekend...lol...



She's not even worried they've broken up now but she's determined that Mr. V must not marry before her and she does not have anyone at the moment. BUT she likes this particular guy...gosh i'm running out of names to call people...lol... Let's call him Bold. Ok, so she showed me Bold's picture on facebook. His fine as crap i won't even lie. My dear P is stalking him though. Bold is in professional school where P is. P knows what time Bold gets on the elevator each morning and she's there at the same time. P knows around what time Bold logs into gmail so she's on 24 hrs waiting for him. P goes through Bold's facebook pictures (his got like 3 hundred and something pics up) and she goes through them twice a day. Once in the morning before she lives the house, and once in the evening before she goes to bed after his logged off gmail.



P knows what his studying, when his finishing, and what his doing next. I asked her why she's not already confronted him as they have only spoken in regards to some society at school she is trying to make him be a member. She says she's not bold enough to talk to him on a personal basis yet.



B finds out Bold is friends with my cousin's boyfriend and she wants him tell Bold. When he finally makes mention to bold that there is a girl that likes him, Bold says his scared, lol... the girl is really wierd the way she stirs at him and happens to turn up everywhere he is.



Two weeks later i see P at a function. She said she finally got the guts to ask Bold over to dinner at her house but she's over him now. She's moved on to someone else. She's not going to follow up on dinner with Bold.



Hmmm... Some of us ladies do give others a name sha...