HMMMM...
People, please allow me to express that "there is a God!"
I have a testimony: "And we overcame by the blood of the lamb and by the word of our testimony"
So bout a week or two now, i was being hunted for money oh! It came to an embarassing point where those idiot debt collectors even started calling me at work, thank God it was me they were getting directly...lol...(now i can laugh about it)
Well, i was determined not to let my spirit be completely down so i kept "believing" but the honest truth was that i knew 1k5 was not going to drop from nowhere. Ok, i was down at some point, i think i made mention of it somehow, because i remember going out and treating myself to a couple of new outfits, and a pair of shoes,(yeah bad idea abi, it would esp since i needed money, the trust me, the amount would not have paid my debts) Even though i knew the money was not going to come, i was determined i was not going to borrow either. Abi, borrowing again to pay off one gbese is not the solution. And truly, for one of my gbese's that is automatic deduction, it was the bank's fault oh, they threw me off and me i thought i had money in the account i kuku ma started spending...only for them to call me and say almost a month later and say a payment did not go through...Men! that step me back big time!
School had sent third notice...lol... and next step was to send to debt collection which would acrue another 17% on the amount...I was just thinking abi who sent me to school now...diploma dem no wan give me sef...I think i had posted them enough and it was finally time to pay off...let me add that i've not exactly started reaping/benefiting for that added degree oh...
Well, s.chic's brother was supposed to be the last resort sha, but since i've not spoken to him in a minute and i even missed his birthday i had still not devised how i was going to get him to give me the money oh... i said give yeah, not borrow...atleast if not all, pay one of my gbese's... I really like brothers sha, wonder if it's the same with sisters...i can truly obtain from my brothers.
Earlier this year, one of my brothers gave me money for new pair of glasses, call it my b/day present. Well, the good sister i am, i kuku ma spent the money, ok i can justify it, i did business with it...The thing is, he never asked if i had even gotten the glasses sef, but please why did daddy s.chic ask every single time he called? I was almost going to tell him "ki lo de?" are you the one that gave me the money?...but since he himself is coming real soon, i had to go find money again and get new frames ohhh...
Anyway, i digressed, sorry. Somehow, the amount i needed and a tart bit more came to look for me when i least expected...thanks to "uncle sam." (my tax returns)
So, really there is a God!
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Unto other things... Some colleagues & I had a conversation a long time ago about this, and i didn't believe when one of the girls said it happened to them...but it's finally happening to me.
You want to know what? Ok, i'm shy, i'm ashamed to say it sef, but i've starting getting pre-menstrual horniness... As in, i know my period is coming because i start to feel horny...
Please abeg, tell me i'm ok and it does happen.
I've come to the conclusion that i need to get married and have unaccountable sex at this stage in my life. When i say unaccountable sex, i don't have to feel guilty that i'm having sex outside of wedlock and the fact that i'll be having it with my husband, rather than the available man just because i'm horny.
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So, our profiles, i've had different responses to it. I just wanted to clarify that the ladies on here so far are not "desperately" in a bad way looking. We are just opening our options up since we may not be in a position to meet people all the time like that and for other different reasons.
If i could get anyone reading this to make a mention of it on their blog it would be much appreciated. I'm actually looking for guys that i know are serious in my personal life as well to add to it but the problem is i would be exposing my blog, which actually i already did to a personal friend to get her profile up.
Ok, i think i've talked enough for now jare...
ps: one more thing before i go... was playing catch-up with a friend of mine and she was asking me for advice and i really could not help her. So there is this guy she's talking to now, problem is the guy used to talk to her friend at one point. Her friend is no longer in the state and they've both moved on since long time ago sha. Anyway, so she knows all their history because she and the friend used to be real close at some point...but the guy is expressing serious interests, as in marriage interest...so is it ok for her to date him? does she have to ask her friend? I told her i would have to go consult with awon temi (my own) and get back to her..lol...see how dry my real world is? You my beautiful readers are my own!
Anyway, what do you all think?
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Showing posts with label Random. Show all posts
Friday, April 25, 2008
Monday, April 14, 2008
One of them days
It's one of those days when i'm at work and have so much work to do and i'm still bored and don't feel like doing jack.
I'm down for a couple of reasons yet i give all the glory to God sha..."This too shall pass" hmmm
Was looking through one of those magazines from home, i forget the name now...but why was there an ad that read:
"41 years old, good-looking, well to do man seeking cripple for relationship that will lead to marriage. Promise to make you happy. " proceeded to leave calling number.
Is it just me or that wierd? I thought about the options and it's sad to say my yoruba movie watching self had the better of me. Maybe the man had been told he must marry a cripple for some reason? then again, maybe the man has a disability himself?
Of-course there is nothing wrong in being crippled...ok, there is something wrong...wo! u sha get the gist! it's not just a normal request for marriage but of-course everyone is entitled to getting married and being happy. It was just wierd sha...
On another note, i'm thinking bout leaving my own hair out more often oh!!! I'm one of those people that hardly wear my own hair. As in if i take my braids out on friday after work, by saturday i've replaced it with another one or with weave. I don't think anyone outside my house has seen my hair like that in a long time. Fuuny thing is it's not even for the sake of fashion oh...it's just convinient, maybe i can also call it laziness. The fact that i have to wake up each morning and go to work is already a bother for me, I wake up in enough time to be at work at the right time and many times i'm still late sef, so taking the time to do hair or think about what to do to the hair each morning does not just cut it for me. As such, i'm good with the braids.
Anyway, i was so tired of my last "fake" hair that i took it out in the middle of the week. I thought i'ld do Ghana weaving next and the lady who is going to hook it up was booked for last week. So i had to carry my hair oh since last week thursday. Funny thing is i've gotten quite a bit of compliments and attention since then. Someone at work actually told me she thought i didn't even have hair sef...the funniest compliments have come from some older men.... "oh look at you young pretty lady, you look different." " You're beautiful, u know that? you should wear your hair down more often" The man that said that just put a smile on my face since i was down sef. It's sad that both of them are too old and they are old flirts at that...hmmm....
Oh, so the story i started, i thought someone was going to add to it. I was expecting someone to mention how predictable it was, someone read it and told me he knew where i was leading to....but m & b's are usually predictable so it's ok... I've lost the zeal to write it though, see why i'm not a writer, but maybe i'll pick up somehow though....
Wo, let me go and finish this day somehow jare...
I'm down for a couple of reasons yet i give all the glory to God sha..."This too shall pass" hmmm
Was looking through one of those magazines from home, i forget the name now...but why was there an ad that read:
"41 years old, good-looking, well to do man seeking cripple for relationship that will lead to marriage. Promise to make you happy. " proceeded to leave calling number.
Is it just me or that wierd? I thought about the options and it's sad to say my yoruba movie watching self had the better of me. Maybe the man had been told he must marry a cripple for some reason? then again, maybe the man has a disability himself?
Of-course there is nothing wrong in being crippled...ok, there is something wrong...wo! u sha get the gist! it's not just a normal request for marriage but of-course everyone is entitled to getting married and being happy. It was just wierd sha...
On another note, i'm thinking bout leaving my own hair out more often oh!!! I'm one of those people that hardly wear my own hair. As in if i take my braids out on friday after work, by saturday i've replaced it with another one or with weave. I don't think anyone outside my house has seen my hair like that in a long time. Fuuny thing is it's not even for the sake of fashion oh...it's just convinient, maybe i can also call it laziness. The fact that i have to wake up each morning and go to work is already a bother for me, I wake up in enough time to be at work at the right time and many times i'm still late sef, so taking the time to do hair or think about what to do to the hair each morning does not just cut it for me. As such, i'm good with the braids.
Anyway, i was so tired of my last "fake" hair that i took it out in the middle of the week. I thought i'ld do Ghana weaving next and the lady who is going to hook it up was booked for last week. So i had to carry my hair oh since last week thursday. Funny thing is i've gotten quite a bit of compliments and attention since then. Someone at work actually told me she thought i didn't even have hair sef...the funniest compliments have come from some older men.... "oh look at you young pretty lady, you look different." " You're beautiful, u know that? you should wear your hair down more often" The man that said that just put a smile on my face since i was down sef. It's sad that both of them are too old and they are old flirts at that...hmmm....
Oh, so the story i started, i thought someone was going to add to it. I was expecting someone to mention how predictable it was, someone read it and told me he knew where i was leading to....but m & b's are usually predictable so it's ok... I've lost the zeal to write it though, see why i'm not a writer, but maybe i'll pick up somehow though....
Wo, let me go and finish this day somehow jare...
Friday, December 28, 2007
Rant
Someone asked me what's up for the rest of the year, and then went ahead and answered it for me with church as usual? for some reason, even though it is the truth, that got me really upset and then again, it made me sad. The fact that i've become that predicatable.
On that note, i've not made a new year resolution in some years because honest truth is that i don't ever accomplish them, i just go with the flow while asking God to direct me. Anyway, i think i'm going to make some resolutions for this coming year. Of-course on top of the list is to live life a little more since i'm not married and have no kids to tie me down and i know according to my family, time is already against me so i guess i might try to enjoy the rest of my singlehood.
like my people say, "i'm going to start "catching" some fun! Beginning this weekend.
On that note, i've not made a new year resolution in some years because honest truth is that i don't ever accomplish them, i just go with the flow while asking God to direct me. Anyway, i think i'm going to make some resolutions for this coming year. Of-course on top of the list is to live life a little more since i'm not married and have no kids to tie me down and i know according to my family, time is already against me so i guess i might try to enjoy the rest of my singlehood.
like my people say, "i'm going to start "catching" some fun! Beginning this weekend.
Saturday, December 1, 2007
Okra Soup
Eba goes well with okra
Pounded Yam goes best with okra
Semo goes well with okra
Grounded Rice goes best with okra.
That's my opinion...
I just had Semo and Okra and it went well.
Couple of years back, when i was young and ignorant of the devices of the enemy, an aunt took me along with her to see some white clothed man, after dealing with her case, he must have seen some vision about me because he decided to voice out the fact that i must never eat okra again.
Prior to this, i had never had any reaction to okra so that was wierd, but as long as i was at home i stuck to the rule without telling papa schic. Well, as per being a boarder, and anyone who has been a proper boarder for secondary school in naija knows how it goes down in the dining hall. (Please ehh, i'm not talking about those boarders in schools like VF, A-Hall, Adesoye College, and the likes) I'm refering to those federal government boarders especially. So the first couple of weeks after semester resumes, i exchange my midweek eba and okra (or that watery imitation of okra soup) for someone else's watery beans.
Unfortunately, during that period when everyone is down on provision and visiting day is still a couple of weeks away, i shrenked that food deal and had to go and eat my eba and okra, nullifying any negative effect it may have on my body. Hence, back to eating my okra; except that for a very long time, all my visits back home, i never eat okra but going back to school was a thrill because that same eba and okra soup (ila alasepo) had become my favorite meal.
I'll take okra soup over any other kind anyday anytime...
Pounded Yam goes best with okra
Semo goes well with okra
Grounded Rice goes best with okra.
That's my opinion...
I just had Semo and Okra and it went well.
Couple of years back, when i was young and ignorant of the devices of the enemy, an aunt took me along with her to see some white clothed man, after dealing with her case, he must have seen some vision about me because he decided to voice out the fact that i must never eat okra again.
Prior to this, i had never had any reaction to okra so that was wierd, but as long as i was at home i stuck to the rule without telling papa schic. Well, as per being a boarder, and anyone who has been a proper boarder for secondary school in naija knows how it goes down in the dining hall. (Please ehh, i'm not talking about those boarders in schools like VF, A-Hall, Adesoye College, and the likes) I'm refering to those federal government boarders especially. So the first couple of weeks after semester resumes, i exchange my midweek eba and okra (or that watery imitation of okra soup) for someone else's watery beans.
Unfortunately, during that period when everyone is down on provision and visiting day is still a couple of weeks away, i shrenked that food deal and had to go and eat my eba and okra, nullifying any negative effect it may have on my body. Hence, back to eating my okra; except that for a very long time, all my visits back home, i never eat okra but going back to school was a thrill because that same eba and okra soup (ila alasepo) had become my favorite meal.
I'll take okra soup over any other kind anyday anytime...
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Random
Hmm... don't understand why i'm attracting married men oh.... another one over the weekend. To think his wife just had #4 child oh.... how sad huh?
Not much of a writer so i'm already short of what to write. But i was thinking today, if anyone i knew ever found this blog site it would be too funny. I'm the last person they'll expect to actually blog. I actually remember finding my sister's blog a some years ago before this craz for blogs. My cousin and i were in total shock, i guess the saying about quiet people is true- you really have to be careful with them, then again, these days i won't be surprised at anything from her, she's truly coming out.
Excited about this weekend already... probably blog about it after the fact.(No has nothing to do with a man)
Still out of my random thoughts, just wondering why is it that the guys we don't fancy that much are the ones that are really into us, and then the ones we fancy are just laid back?
Now that i think about it, since i've been talking about relationships of some sort or the other, i just may make this blog into one that deals with such issues. I sure have a story to tell in regards to that; some funny story too.
Not much of a writer so i'm already short of what to write. But i was thinking today, if anyone i knew ever found this blog site it would be too funny. I'm the last person they'll expect to actually blog. I actually remember finding my sister's blog a some years ago before this craz for blogs. My cousin and i were in total shock, i guess the saying about quiet people is true- you really have to be careful with them, then again, these days i won't be surprised at anything from her, she's truly coming out.
Excited about this weekend already... probably blog about it after the fact.(No has nothing to do with a man)
Still out of my random thoughts, just wondering why is it that the guys we don't fancy that much are the ones that are really into us, and then the ones we fancy are just laid back?
Now that i think about it, since i've been talking about relationships of some sort or the other, i just may make this blog into one that deals with such issues. I sure have a story to tell in regards to that; some funny story too.
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