Hmm... don't understand why i'm attracting married men oh.... another one over the weekend. To think his wife just had #4 child oh.... how sad huh?
Not much of a writer so i'm already short of what to write. But i was thinking today, if anyone i knew ever found this blog site it would be too funny. I'm the last person they'll expect to actually blog. I actually remember finding my sister's blog a some years ago before this craz for blogs. My cousin and i were in total shock, i guess the saying about quiet people is true- you really have to be careful with them, then again, these days i won't be surprised at anything from her, she's truly coming out.
Excited about this weekend already... probably blog about it after the fact.(No has nothing to do with a man)
Still out of my random thoughts, just wondering why is it that the guys we don't fancy that much are the ones that are really into us, and then the ones we fancy are just laid back?
Now that i think about it, since i've been talking about relationships of some sort or the other, i just may make this blog into one that deals with such issues. I sure have a story to tell in regards to that; some funny story too.
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Friday, August 3, 2007
TGIF
Thank God it's friday!!!
I'm at work and i'm still bored stiff.... what am i going to do this weekend? I feel like there is much to do and yet nothing to do... not making much sense am i? But it's also kinda of my last week to really enjoy for a while so i'm def. going to make the best use of it somehow.
Men! when God created men, he really did a wonderful job sha. Abeg my people help me oh. So i've got this guy friend, and we've really been cool for a long time. His got a girlfriend but i think we share more things about each other than he even shares with his girlfriend, i've never had a problem with him having a babe oh! And all of a sudden, i tell him i have a new man....(mind you, just said it jokingly) but this homeboy is tripping about it. How he did not hear about him before and how i'm keeping things from him now. In general i'm getting this vibe that his upset about me seeing this my "new man." How far with that? it's o.k for him to have a girlfriend and then i have a new man and it's a problem. I told him this bogus story beginning of the week, and today is friday and i've gotten a new question each day about the guy and if i'm happy. I'm beginning to think he likes me!!! or what was the initial annoyance and all this questioning about?
Abeg, so if you happen to be reading this, please enjoy your weekend. I'll definitely be enjoying mine!
I'm at work and i'm still bored stiff.... what am i going to do this weekend? I feel like there is much to do and yet nothing to do... not making much sense am i? But it's also kinda of my last week to really enjoy for a while so i'm def. going to make the best use of it somehow.
Men! when God created men, he really did a wonderful job sha. Abeg my people help me oh. So i've got this guy friend, and we've really been cool for a long time. His got a girlfriend but i think we share more things about each other than he even shares with his girlfriend, i've never had a problem with him having a babe oh! And all of a sudden, i tell him i have a new man....(mind you, just said it jokingly) but this homeboy is tripping about it. How he did not hear about him before and how i'm keeping things from him now. In general i'm getting this vibe that his upset about me seeing this my "new man." How far with that? it's o.k for him to have a girlfriend and then i have a new man and it's a problem. I told him this bogus story beginning of the week, and today is friday and i've gotten a new question each day about the guy and if i'm happy. I'm beginning to think he likes me!!! or what was the initial annoyance and all this questioning about?
Abeg, so if you happen to be reading this, please enjoy your weekend. I'll definitely be enjoying mine!
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Man vs Mistress
Truly i started this blog out of boredom, but i'm beginning to think it may actually be fun! But abeg, i'm asking anyone who cares to read not to get used to it because even as old as i am, i still have one kin short attention span for things like this.
Anyway, i remember reading,(not sure if it was a blog post or something) but it was about how nigerian men, newly married young men especially,still cheat on their spouses, and i'm thinking to myself what a mess, you would think that as newly married you get atleast a year or two of your husband before he starts wondering outside if his that kinda man.
Low and behold, i find one who is showing me first hand example. Proclaiming his love and how he married his wife out of circumstances that i don't need to "worry my little head about." Sad part of it is i feel sorry for the wife who is back at home while her husband is declaring some serious soul-mate love to another woman in the "land of the free."
So i'm wondering, do some men really think that low of women? or is it some inner male thingy that they can't help it? This homeboy wants a serious relationship not an affair. So abeg i ask, what becomes of me when his wife comes? Can't imagine myself someone's mistress, it sounds really cool, don't get me wrong, after many years of reading Halequine presents (M&B's) i've always wondered about the good life of a mistress. Infact i have the upper hand and can milk the situation for all it's worth.
Hmmm... so i'm asking, if you met someone you believe is all you've wanted your man to be but you know his married, his wife is far away, would you have an affair with him? ladies?
Anyway, i remember reading,(not sure if it was a blog post or something) but it was about how nigerian men, newly married young men especially,still cheat on their spouses, and i'm thinking to myself what a mess, you would think that as newly married you get atleast a year or two of your husband before he starts wondering outside if his that kinda man.
Low and behold, i find one who is showing me first hand example. Proclaiming his love and how he married his wife out of circumstances that i don't need to "worry my little head about." Sad part of it is i feel sorry for the wife who is back at home while her husband is declaring some serious soul-mate love to another woman in the "land of the free."
So i'm wondering, do some men really think that low of women? or is it some inner male thingy that they can't help it? This homeboy wants a serious relationship not an affair. So abeg i ask, what becomes of me when his wife comes? Can't imagine myself someone's mistress, it sounds really cool, don't get me wrong, after many years of reading Halequine presents (M&B's) i've always wondered about the good life of a mistress. Infact i have the upper hand and can milk the situation for all it's worth.
Hmmm... so i'm asking, if you met someone you believe is all you've wanted your man to be but you know his married, his wife is far away, would you have an affair with him? ladies?
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
I'm blogging
So, i've finally joined this blogging thing.... let's see how long i can last... was never able to keep a journal
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