Truly i started this blog out of boredom, but i'm beginning to think it may actually be fun! But abeg, i'm asking anyone who cares to read not to get used to it because even as old as i am, i still have one kin short attention span for things like this.
Anyway, i remember reading,(not sure if it was a blog post or something) but it was about how nigerian men, newly married young men especially,still cheat on their spouses, and i'm thinking to myself what a mess, you would think that as newly married you get atleast a year or two of your husband before he starts wondering outside if his that kinda man.
Low and behold, i find one who is showing me first hand example. Proclaiming his love and how he married his wife out of circumstances that i don't need to "worry my little head about." Sad part of it is i feel sorry for the wife who is back at home while her husband is declaring some serious soul-mate love to another woman in the "land of the free."
So i'm wondering, do some men really think that low of women? or is it some inner male thingy that they can't help it? This homeboy wants a serious relationship not an affair. So abeg i ask, what becomes of me when his wife comes? Can't imagine myself someone's mistress, it sounds really cool, don't get me wrong, after many years of reading Halequine presents (M&B's) i've always wondered about the good life of a mistress. Infact i have the upper hand and can milk the situation for all it's worth.
Hmmm... so i'm asking, if you met someone you believe is all you've wanted your man to be but you know his married, his wife is far away, would you have an affair with him? ladies?
4 comments:
Sad when guys claim that they hate their wives just to get some sex. Such guys are fools. Just be wise in this circumstance. You deserve the very best in life. Cheers!!!
S. Chic, welcome 2 blogger! Hope ur attention span doesn't fizzle out. It can be tough sometimes.
But ehm...I am not a saint or anything, but I really do not see myself dating a married man. It's just too complicated...not 2 mention that karma is a real bitch.
yankee9jachick: girl! i decided a long time ago, i have to desire to be no man's mistress... i think i can do better than that... and like vera said, Karma is a "B"
Vera: Thanks for welcoming me. Hopefully, i'll stick through blogging for a while. Been a big fan for long... loved your book series...abeg u gonna start another one? And u're rite! Married men are not worth the hassle... If they're nigerians, you can be rest assured they have no intention of leaving their wivies... and we as single females can do better than that nonsense.
hmm being someone's mistress seems on the surface to be very very attractive, I mean you get all the fun and none of the responsibility... until you start liking him and realizing what exactly you've gotten yourself into. You've put your life on hold and he's living the best of both worlds.
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