Yippeee!!! Profile # 6

Yes Ladies, we finally have a man put up a profile, and even better, he has expressed interest in one of the profiles...if it's your's you'll know soonest...hahaha...but ladies, if you're also interested in knowing more bout this guy, please feel free to holla at me.... Here goes it!!

Profile # 6

Age: 31
Sex: Male
Occupation: Brand Consultant/Publisher
Religion: Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 25 - 30
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Anywhere
Interests: Reading, Writting, Contemporary Jazz
Would you like to describe yourself? Not so Light skinned, used to be atlethic Built, not exactly Tall, mostly Fun, usually principled & frightfully ambitious... oh and I am cute!
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Cool, calm & collected- A lady. Good sense of style, purpose-driven and a sense of Humour - oh and cute too!

Stuvvs

HMMMM...

People, please allow me to express that "there is a God!"

I have a testimony: "And we overcame by the blood of the lamb and by the word of our testimony"

So bout a week or two now, i was being hunted for money oh! It came to an embarassing point where those idiot debt collectors even started calling me at work, thank God it was me they were getting directly...lol...(now i can laugh about it)

Well, i was determined not to let my spirit be completely down so i kept "believing" but the honest truth was that i knew 1k5 was not going to drop from nowhere. Ok, i was down at some point, i think i made mention of it somehow, because i remember going out and treating myself to a couple of new outfits, and a pair of shoes,(yeah bad idea abi, it would esp since i needed money, the trust me, the amount would not have paid my debts) Even though i knew the money was not going to come, i was determined i was not going to borrow either. Abi, borrowing again to pay off one gbese is not the solution. And truly, for one of my gbese's that is automatic deduction, it was the bank's fault oh, they threw me off and me i thought i had money in the account i kuku ma started spending...only for them to call me and say almost a month later and say a payment did not go through...Men! that step me back big time!

School had sent third notice...lol... and next step was to send to debt collection which would acrue another 17% on the amount...I was just thinking abi who sent me to school now...diploma dem no wan give me sef...I think i had posted them enough and it was finally time to pay off...let me add that i've not exactly started reaping/benefiting for that added degree oh...

Well, s.chic's brother was supposed to be the last resort sha, but since i've not spoken to him in a minute and i even missed his birthday i had still not devised how i was going to get him to give me the money oh... i said give yeah, not borrow...atleast if not all, pay one of my gbese's... I really like brothers sha, wonder if it's the same with sisters...i can truly obtain from my brothers.

Earlier this year, one of my brothers gave me money for new pair of glasses, call it my b/day present. Well, the good sister i am, i kuku ma spent the money, ok i can justify it, i did business with it...The thing is, he never asked if i had even gotten the glasses sef, but please why did daddy s.chic ask every single time he called? I was almost going to tell him "ki lo de?" are you the one that gave me the money?...but since he himself is coming real soon, i had to go find money again and get new frames ohhh...

Anyway, i digressed, sorry. Somehow, the amount i needed and a tart bit more came to look for me when i least expected...thanks to "uncle sam." (my tax returns)

So, really there is a God!
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Unto other things... Some colleagues & I had a conversation a long time ago about this, and i didn't believe when one of the girls said it happened to them...but it's finally happening to me.

You want to know what? Ok, i'm shy, i'm ashamed to say it sef, but i've starting getting pre-menstrual horniness... As in, i know my period is coming because i start to feel horny...

Please abeg, tell me i'm ok and it does happen.

I've come to the conclusion that i need to get married and have unaccountable sex at this stage in my life. When i say unaccountable sex, i don't have to feel guilty that i'm having sex outside of wedlock and the fact that i'll be having it with my husband, rather than the available man just because i'm horny.
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So, our profiles, i've had different responses to it. I just wanted to clarify that the ladies on here so far are not "desperately" in a bad way looking. We are just opening our options up since we may not be in a position to meet people all the time like that and for other different reasons.

If i could get anyone reading this to make a mention of it on their blog it would be much appreciated. I'm actually looking for guys that i know are serious in my personal life as well to add to it but the problem is i would be exposing my blog, which actually i already did to a personal friend to get her profile up.

Ok, i think i've talked enough for now jare...

ps: one more thing before i go... was playing catch-up with a friend of mine and she was asking me for advice and i really could not help her. So there is this guy she's talking to now, problem is the guy used to talk to her friend at one point. Her friend is no longer in the state and they've both moved on since long time ago sha. Anyway, so she knows all their history because she and the friend used to be real close at some point...but the guy is expressing serious interests, as in marriage interest...so is it ok for her to date him? does she have to ask her friend? I told her i would have to go consult with awon temi (my own) and get back to her..lol...see how dry my real world is? You my beautiful readers are my own!

Anyway, what do you all think?

Profile

Profile #5

Age: 26
Sex: Female
Occupation: Lawyer

Religion: Christian

Faith: Pentecostal

Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria

State: Delta

Age range of partner you seek: 27-32

Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Nigeria PLEASE

Interests: like music and traveling

Would you like to describe yourself? Light skinned, tall, on the petite side, serious minded, very principled.

Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Fun loving sensitive but above all, loves God

Interested in this lady? please e-mail sassiechic@gmail.com

Surprise

Eyaaa, they almost got me teary eyed today...

I can't believe they actually planned a surprise at my job and it worked! If anyone knew these people, you would understand that they could not keep a secret to save their lives.

So, we have this fund they call the sunshine fund-you know, the one where we contribute an amount monthly into to celebrate birthdays, showers, deaths, etc to co-workers or should in case the need arise sha... For birthdays, we would usually celebrate it during our monthly staff meeting. Well, this year they missed my b/day and since i'm usually personal bout it i did not announce myself either except for a few of them that knew me like that.

The lady in-charge of sunshine fund apologized when she found out like in March that they had missed my b/day in January, since i had also not contributed to the funds this year, it was ok!

Well, today they decided to surprise me... some staff of the month kinda thing in addition to my b/day they say! First i saw flowers on my table when i first got in this morning, i was still wondering who was the person i had sent that bought flowers and could not find anywhere else to put it-yeah, i'm not big on flowers. Since they were actually pretty, my last thoughts bout them was to tell one lady like this that likes flowers to please take them or put them somewhere else sha. They actually bought food, enough for everyone and cake, and i get to leave at 4 rather than 5:30p.m. not much abi- but it's something since i'm sleepy sef...

The small but mighty lady herself gave a not so touching short speech about how much i'm appreciated and all that. I'm just glad she mentioned the fact that i do all the out of my job description things and how much they appreciate that. Atleast now i know she knows!

Anyway, thought it was nice, surprised that no one even mentioned it especially the loud mouth Ms. A that can't keep a secret! lol

On another note, i was reading someone's blog and something actually struck me, she had mentioned that she found love-well more like happiness in the least expected place, as in she had the idea of everything she wanted in a man-including the fact that he was nigerian...well, all of what she wanted came in a different package being that the guy is african american...I guess her point was that we should leave ourselves open and some of our ideas about an "ideal" mate for us may just not be in our reality. Huff!

Also on another note...for the ladies, how to make a "bloke" fall in-love - http://naijabloke.wordpress.com./ from a man's perspective - check it out, i'm not sure if i completely agree with all the points though though but they are good points nevertheless...

Outie...

Age: 26
Sex: Female
Occupation: Engineer
Religion: Muslim
Faith: Islam
Resident Country: London
Country of Origin: The Gambia
State: Banjul
Age range of partner you seek: 28-34
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in yourcountry of residence or anywhere: London is my preference.
Interests: I like music, theatre, reading, writing, socializing, and a good dance too
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so brieflyI am confident, outgoing, passionate, loyal and kind.
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain: Someone of my own faith will be easier but I like a challenge!! So is open minded about that.

Interested in this young lady? please send an e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com...

emmm...excuse me, where are the men?????????

Profile #3

Age: 27
Sex: Female
Occupation: Sales Executive
Religion: Christian
Christianity Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: U.S.
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Osun State, Ilesha
Level of Education: Masters degree
Age range of partner you seek: 27-36
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Anyway, North America is an added bonus though
Interests: God, writing, spending time with family & friends, listening to music, singing
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly: 5'10, slim, dark skin, creative, fashionable Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:-God fearing, affectionate, confident, simply- want a man that would still woo me after marriage.

Interested? please send e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com

excuse me, can we get some men here pleaseeeeeeee??????????

Profile 2

Profile # 2
Age: 28
Sex: Female
Occupation: Scientific WriterReligion:
ChristianityFaith: Baptist
Resident Country: Canada
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Ondo State
Level of Education: Bachelors degree
Age range of partner you seek: 29-34
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: North America is my preference
Interests: writing, reading, spending time with friends, listening to music, dancing
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly: 5'6, plus sized, medium skin tone, wear glasses, enjoy laughing and making people laugh, creative
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:-A Christian man who lives what he believes-university educated and gainfully employed-confident without being cocky-good sense of humour-taller than 5'6 and not too skinny

Interested in this person? please send an e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com

Profile

Profile # 1

Age: 27
Sex: Female
Occupation: Administrator
Religion: Christian
ChristianityFaith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: US
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Oyo State
Level of Education: Masters degree
Age range of partner you seek: 28 - 36
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Interested anywhere

Interests: cooking, reading novels, organizing events, politics

Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly:Average height, bout 5"4, dark skin, average size. Got some curvy stuvs...lol, ok, good sense of humor

Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:A Christian - God-fearing must not just be a church goer please, must have fear of God, sense of humor.

You think you might be interested in this person? send an e-mail to sassiechic@gmail.com for step 2 - see a pic.

Relationship

Hmmm… this week has been really challenging men! Still I “PRAISE.”

Song I’m singing: Praise is what do…
I vow to praise you
Through the good and the bad
I’ll praise you
When I’m happy or sad
I’ll praise you
In all that I go through
Because Praise is what I do
And I owe it all to you…

Ok, that of my chest…unto other things…

As much as people are getting married, I’ve noticed that there are actually about the same number of people looking for a partner to settle down with…well amongst us women oh…not too sure bout men as there are people getting married.

I’ve been round a couple of blogs and I know there are genuine women and men out there for some reason or the other have just not found the right “person.” Is there really a right person?

I’ve got a couple of friends who are looking to settle down and I think at this point I want to blame it on the environment abi what else? Young, beautiful, intelligent, hardworking, ladies. So if we are all that, why can’t we find men abi? Well, I’m asking the same question. I have a particular friend that even me I’m guaranteed she would make the perfect wife…far better than me I must say because she’s submissive to a fault as long as I’m concerned, caring, and romantic, Yet she’s still not found the “one” if there is something like the one.

I think this search or quest for a partner could have been much easier and less trouble if some of us of a certain age group, for females usually from 24, and for men, I think 28 are not under the pressure from our family members and others. It only gets worse when our age mates are tying the knot, marrying, jumping the broom and whatever else it is called.

I’ve read about different crazy ways people meet including facebook and HI5 so please don’t kill the idea. Nothing is impossible! You just never know!

Well I was thinking maybe this blog could help. (not like there is a lot of traffic here, but maybe I can have anyone reading it to actually tell others they know to come and add their profile).

The idea is to have people put up a brief profile. It’s nameless; we’ll use numbers for names. Now if anyone finds a profile that interests them and they want to further communicate with the person, they send me an e-mail on the condition that they also put a profile out. Individuals can decide not to want another person to reach them based on their profile.

Now, the next step after first interest would be to exchange pics. If one is no longer interested after pic, then no further information will be passed across.

Now, please on a very serious note, only those who are looking for relationships that may lead to marriage should apply. Sorry, but females under 21 and below may not apply, and men 24 and below may not apply well, unless you have an older sibling.

So, Profile Questions as follows:
Profile # 1

Age:
Sex:
Occupation:
Religion:
Faith: Presbyterian Pentecostal Catholic J. Witness Others
Resident Country:
Country of Origin:
State:
Age range of partner you seek:
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your
country of residence or anywhere:
Interests:
Would you like to describe yourself? If so, please do so briefly


Are you looking for specifics in a partner? If so, please explain:

e-mail (will not be displayed on the profile page)

Are there any other specific questions you ask when trying to meet someone for the first time?


Please send your profiles to this e-mail address – sassiechic@gmail.com and it will be added on. Anyone interested in any of the profiles, also send e-mail to the above address.

Ok this I think should be interesting and fun…spread the word and let’s see how it goes…

One of them days

It's one of those days when i'm at work and have so much work to do and i'm still bored and don't feel like doing jack.

I'm down for a couple of reasons yet i give all the glory to God sha..."This too shall pass" hmmm

Was looking through one of those magazines from home, i forget the name now...but why was there an ad that read:

"41 years old, good-looking, well to do man seeking cripple for relationship that will lead to marriage. Promise to make you happy. " proceeded to leave calling number.

Is it just me or that wierd? I thought about the options and it's sad to say my yoruba movie watching self had the better of me. Maybe the man had been told he must marry a cripple for some reason? then again, maybe the man has a disability himself?

Of-course there is nothing wrong in being crippled...ok, there is something wrong...wo! u sha get the gist! it's not just a normal request for marriage but of-course everyone is entitled to getting married and being happy. It was just wierd sha...

On another note, i'm thinking bout leaving my own hair out more often oh!!! I'm one of those people that hardly wear my own hair. As in if i take my braids out on friday after work, by saturday i've replaced it with another one or with weave. I don't think anyone outside my house has seen my hair like that in a long time. Fuuny thing is it's not even for the sake of fashion oh...it's just convinient, maybe i can also call it laziness. The fact that i have to wake up each morning and go to work is already a bother for me, I wake up in enough time to be at work at the right time and many times i'm still late sef, so taking the time to do hair or think about what to do to the hair each morning does not just cut it for me. As such, i'm good with the braids.

Anyway, i was so tired of my last "fake" hair that i took it out in the middle of the week. I thought i'ld do Ghana weaving next and the lady who is going to hook it up was booked for last week. So i had to carry my hair oh since last week thursday. Funny thing is i've gotten quite a bit of compliments and attention since then. Someone at work actually told me she thought i didn't even have hair sef...the funniest compliments have come from some older men.... "oh look at you young pretty lady, you look different." " You're beautiful, u know that? you should wear your hair down more often" The man that said that just put a smile on my face since i was down sef. It's sad that both of them are too old and they are old flirts at that...hmmm....

Oh, so the story i started, i thought someone was going to add to it. I was expecting someone to mention how predictable it was, someone read it and told me he knew where i was leading to....but m & b's are usually predictable so it's ok... I've lost the zeal to write it though, see why i'm not a writer, but maybe i'll pick up somehow though....

Wo, let me go and finish this day somehow jare...

Book/Writing

Mope was in much of a lighter mood than she had been in the last couple of weeks. She was just too glad to have gotten this job as rotten and as below her as the job was, a whole college graduate. She had been down to her last couple of naira and worried about how she was going to make her share of rent at the one bedroom unit she shared with Stella Marcus at Alhaji’s face-me-I-face-you set of units.

She had no doubt that this time alhaji was going to insist on his payment in “kind” rather than giving her the usual couple of extra days, as he had warned her the last time in his annoying Yoruba accent “no more estra dazzs after this month, after this time, you will use ya sef to pay d money fine girl like you.”

Just the thought of Alhaji made her cringe. There was no way she could even allow the man to touch her. Alhaji could always be found in the balcony of his building next door regardless of the time of day; Mope always wondered if the man had anything else in his life to do. In the mornings one could see him without a shirt and a wrapper wrapped around his beer-drinking potbelly chewing his chewing stick and spitting right out regardless of who was standing down at the bottom. He watched everyone one going in and coming out of the units like a hawk looking for preys. Constantly making insulting or not so funny comments to one person or the other and trying to sweet talk a young girl to come up to him.

Mope had been so busy in her thoughts she did not realize that someone else had entered the office. She was taken aback for a minute by the sheer handsomeness of the figure standing by the file cabinet inspecting a file. He was dressed up in something she figured could not be less than a custom made suit made only to fit that beautiful frame. She was still regaling in his handsomeness when he looked up from the file he was holding…

“good afternoon to you too, and thanks for the compliment” Mope looked down embarrassed at the fact that she had been caught in the act of stirring.

She curtsied, “I’m sorry sir, good afternoon, but what compliment sir?"

“the one your eyes were giving me.” Tega said, looking her up from head to toe, with eyes that looked like they could see through layers of clothes until they got to the barest of skins.

Mope was appalled and irriated quickly; she could tell he was arrogant and egotistical…

“emm, excuse me but just because you’re in a suit that looks good on you does not mean that you should look at me like I’m less human in what I have on”

“ahh… so you do agree I look good? Tega said with a dragging rich laugh. I’ve not seen you around here before, what’s your name?”

“that’s because I’m new, and I didn’t say you look good either, but I’ll get out of your way right about now, I was told to start cleaning this office as it was currently empty, by the way, what are you doing in here as well? I was told the MD and only a few other executive staff members are allowed to be in this room, I hope you’re not trespassing because I’ll be quick to report it because if anything goes missing, I won’t be blamed. And besides I can’t afford to loose this job now."

“Don’t worry, I’ll report myself if anything gets missing, I got permission to look over some documents. By the way, you still have not told me your name."

"Why are you so concerned about my name, I’ll just be right out of your way Mope said walking out of the office."

Writing

Hmmm.... missed this space for a minute! I think i've lost that blogging spirit though... I've got quite a bit to rant about but i don't even know where to start and where to end and maybe a part of me can't put up personals anymore...

So i was having a bit of a lazy saturday and while sitting infront of the computer thinking either to blog-as in read other people's blog or to jejely go and read a book, or finish up my cleaning that i've been putting away for a while now. I was thinking bout what i was going to do with my drawer filled with Halequine presents books, some mills & boon, halequine romance, etc. My mind went back to those days when it was an addiction- how sad huh? I remember starting off early too, i think many nigerian families made their children cultivate a reading habit because i remember sharing famous fives and all the rest of those books. Finally got introduced to the nigerian version books like pacesetters, etc...

Well i was thinking bout all of this and how i've read some bloggers beautiful writings such as Ms. Vera, Ms. Bimby lads, Ms. Catwalq, Ms. Allied and i wondered how they did it. I always wanted to write but doubt i ever finished one single story sef...it just seemed like too much thinking....lol...yeah, i'm lazy like that....

Anyway, i was bored so i thought i'ld start again atleast this time i can put it up here rather than on paper... It may not even be completely original sef as in after many years of Lynn Graham, Danielle Steele, Sidney Sheldon, and Nora Roberts...hmmm...what do u expect? but it still comes from my head sha!

Only now, i'm just doing it for the fun of it.... the story may never get finished as usual, it may not even make sense at some point.

Maybe i can get people interested though. As in people like me that want to write but can't really write...we can collaborate u know.... how about i start it off and anyone reading feel free to add the next paragraph, chapter, line, whatever it is and we can finish a complete book.

It could be funny, serious, dramatic, tragedic (is that a real word?) anyway, u get the gist.... just came to my mind now.... how exciting!!!!!

So i'm posting up the first part... please feel free to add even if it's a line or tell me where to make changes to give it more effects.... like in describing a person or a place or thing....

As we go along, any reader may also feel free to give it a name because i have no idea either...