Dear Mother,
I had so many things to say to you, yet i can't find the words to pen them down. Apparently, those things just want to stay in my head.
Well, too many times i've wished you were here...all through the years and at different experiences or milestones in my life, i've silently wished you were here to share it with me. I honestly can't say what the difference would have been, but i'm sure you're looking down and seeing what a great job dad has done.
I 've wished you were here more in recent years than when i was much younger, i wish you were here now to answer my questions about this direction God is taking me...
19 years ago today, you decided you could not fight cancer anymore and you gave up to join the hosts of heaven.
I wish you had fought some more for our sake but i understand...
After the meeting today, i really really wish you were here to help me make the decision...
I hope that while you're sitting in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ, you're looking down and interceding on my behalf and asking God to show me the way...
Monday, May 12, 2008
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Just writing
I'm so busy both at home and at work, yet i'm so out of my mind bored...i really need a more engaging social life for real...someone's response to that is that i need to get married...next level in life...hmmm...
Picked up daddy s.chic bout 2 days ago from the airport and since then it's been one thing or the other. The man does not even want to settle down sef...his explanation is that he went to go see mami (granma) before he left to tell her he was going away to see his girls and she asked when next we were coming to see her and he replied soon...her reply to that was that hmm"will they meet me at this rate?" Well, as a result, daddy s.chic feels like he needs to do everything he has to do real fast just in case...as if anything happens he has to go back right away...hopefully mami will still give us some time sha...
Oh, i've concluded that my sense of direction is really really poor. So airport is like an hour away from us oh...on the way back, y was i challenging the GPS thing? Once it said one way, i would say no oh, the place looks familiar, only to find out i really did take the wrong direction and i would hear "recalculating" from the Oyinbo voice.
Oh ladies, please look at the comments at the last profile. An anonymous lady put a comment up about how we should be open and allow younger guys in...please check it out...i kinda agree u know, but maybe the age must be like 1yr difference sha.
Dearest Ms. Omosewa also suggests maybe we should put e-mails up, but i think for some of us, that would be revealing our identity. If you want me to put ur e-mail up, please feel free to send me an e-mail indicating that.
I actually have a question i'm embarassed about asking, but it's a blog abi? I'm thinking out loud on computer and no one knows me like that-well, except for a few and the others(others u know urselves oh)...lol...but don't they say if u don't ask, u'll never know? Ok, i know someone is probably saying just ask the damn question! You sef you're u too like talk!
Anywayyyyy, i was just wondering, u know, with oral sex and all, many agree and many disagree...until i understand it, then i'll share what i believe...but my question is...
what pleasure do men get from going down on females? I'm just wondering if men just enjoy pleasuring the female, as in, is it her expression or the sounds she makes or something or they themselves derive a pleasure from it?
ok, don't condemn me yet ohh...i'm God-fearing but i'm still human...my mind is allowed to wonder abi? or it's a sin for wondering like that?
Ok, i'm going to go check with the pastor so i can pray for forgiveness...lol...but u know, one pastor said one time like this that if a man is not married by the time his 30, please let's ask him where his putting his "thing." So i'm guessing conversations like that are only human...
ok, me dey go abeg...done enough rambling... i have a meeting that i may fall asleep in now...
Picked up daddy s.chic bout 2 days ago from the airport and since then it's been one thing or the other. The man does not even want to settle down sef...his explanation is that he went to go see mami (granma) before he left to tell her he was going away to see his girls and she asked when next we were coming to see her and he replied soon...her reply to that was that hmm"will they meet me at this rate?" Well, as a result, daddy s.chic feels like he needs to do everything he has to do real fast just in case...as if anything happens he has to go back right away...hopefully mami will still give us some time sha...
Oh, i've concluded that my sense of direction is really really poor. So airport is like an hour away from us oh...on the way back, y was i challenging the GPS thing? Once it said one way, i would say no oh, the place looks familiar, only to find out i really did take the wrong direction and i would hear "recalculating" from the Oyinbo voice.
Oh ladies, please look at the comments at the last profile. An anonymous lady put a comment up about how we should be open and allow younger guys in...please check it out...i kinda agree u know, but maybe the age must be like 1yr difference sha.
Dearest Ms. Omosewa also suggests maybe we should put e-mails up, but i think for some of us, that would be revealing our identity. If you want me to put ur e-mail up, please feel free to send me an e-mail indicating that.
I actually have a question i'm embarassed about asking, but it's a blog abi? I'm thinking out loud on computer and no one knows me like that-well, except for a few and the others(others u know urselves oh)...lol...but don't they say if u don't ask, u'll never know? Ok, i know someone is probably saying just ask the damn question! You sef you're u too like talk!
Anywayyyyy, i was just wondering, u know, with oral sex and all, many agree and many disagree...until i understand it, then i'll share what i believe...but my question is...
what pleasure do men get from going down on females? I'm just wondering if men just enjoy pleasuring the female, as in, is it her expression or the sounds she makes or something or they themselves derive a pleasure from it?
ok, don't condemn me yet ohh...i'm God-fearing but i'm still human...my mind is allowed to wonder abi? or it's a sin for wondering like that?
Ok, i'm going to go check with the pastor so i can pray for forgiveness...lol...but u know, one pastor said one time like this that if a man is not married by the time his 30, please let's ask him where his putting his "thing." So i'm guessing conversations like that are only human...
ok, me dey go abeg...done enough rambling... i have a meeting that i may fall asleep in now...
Friday, May 2, 2008
Profile
Profile #7
Age: 30
Sex: Female
Occupation: Business Analyst
Religion: Born again Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: US (moving to nigeria in October) unless....:-)
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 30-38
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: US or Nigeria
Interests: music, love travelling and photography
Would you like to describe yourself? Chocolate coloured, tall, slim, fun, kind-hearted, quiet at first but opens up when i get comfortable
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Genuinely God fearing, hardworking, kind-hearted, ambitous, tall, willing to commit.
Wanna know more bout this lady? e-mail me at sassiechic@gmail.com
Come, where are the dudes for real??????? Don't be shy abi it's intimidated...
Age: 30
Sex: Female
Occupation: Business Analyst
Religion: Born again Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: US (moving to nigeria in October) unless....:-)
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 30-38
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: US or Nigeria
Interests: music, love travelling and photography
Would you like to describe yourself? Chocolate coloured, tall, slim, fun, kind-hearted, quiet at first but opens up when i get comfortable
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Genuinely God fearing, hardworking, kind-hearted, ambitous, tall, willing to commit.
Wanna know more bout this lady? e-mail me at sassiechic@gmail.com
Come, where are the dudes for real??????? Don't be shy abi it's intimidated...
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Pranks
Today for some reason i remember how much pranks i was involved in as a child. Now that i thik about them, was actually involved in some really serious ones that could have hurt people but we didn't thik about the implications as kids.
Ok, please tell me that we just were not wierd in my household. ok, scenerio: if someone is calling me, i'll hide behind the door and when the person comes through i scare them by shouting "gba" "gboa" or something silly like that. Does that ring a bell? U don't even have to be called, just hide and scare anyone coming around sha...
Well, that was the case in my household a very long time ago. We had this young house-help then that used to swear that no one was ever going to get her, u know "i ain't never scare!" kinda attitude...lol... True to her word, no one could ever get her, but she always got us good. Climb up the stairs, and she'll be hiding waiting to say "gbo," Enter into the kitchen and she's a in corner waiting to scare you...turn on the stairs in the bedroom and she'll appear and scare you...infact it got to a point that my cousins and i decided that we had had enough and we were going to get her real good.
So this particular day, she was left to make sure all the doors were securely locked as usual. She had cut off the lights and all and gone upstairs.
Two of my cousins and i came back downstairs, one had powder covering her face and wearing black, the other was completely covered up to the face with a white bedsheet and i had a black and white one covering me up. An aunt who was on this with us, sent her back downstairs to get something for her. Moment she cut the lights back off, we appeared looking like some real scary ghost and making funny noises, My cousin proceeded to call her name 3 times like you would see in some of those yoruba homevideos, asked her to kneel down and she must not scream, while the rest of us went on with our hmmmmmmm noises.
Men, this girl was dying, she was crying like the world was coming to an end, she was shaking, and begging altogether, can't remember what story my cousin formulated for her sha but i remember the end was that she should put her head down so that we can disappear and she must not say a word about our appearance sha...we ran upstairs and waited for her to come up...the girl ran like she had truly seen spirits, but we burst out laughing as soon as she got in...we got her real good! I thought that was funny...but now i think it could have been an expensive joke sha, what if she had a heart attack or something?
Another case, we had friends visiting from the Gambia. I had met the man a couple of times, but this was the first time i was meeting his daughters from two different mothers and about the same age as me. Very funny, the girls and i bonded very well, like we had known each other forever. Anyway, one of them, let's call her A, told me the other one-B, slept like a log of wood through anything. Of-course, i wanted to put it to the test and A was willing to prove it to me. It was actually A's plan. the three of us slept in the same room that nite after talking for many hours. Of-course B was the first to fall asleep. We waited for about 30 mins after she was asleep, then went into the bathroom and started running water. A lighted a newspaper and put it through B's noise/face briefly and we started to shout fire! fire! fire!
Best to believe that B woke up, looked at us and went rite back to sleep. Actually, i doubt if she really woke up sef, she just turned around and looked and slept back...lol...
Oh gosh, i think i have a few more, but i just remembered i had to prepare and send some tests to the scoring center...God help me, they may not come back before parent conferences....
I'm really calling for trouble with this blogging habit. As much as i like blogging, i don't even blog at home. I only like it here at work....
Oh, did i mention i just joined facebook like 2 or 3 weeks ago and i can actually say there is nothing to it. I'm not addicted! I actually like my blogsville instead!!!
Ok, i'm outie!!!!
Ok, please tell me that we just were not wierd in my household. ok, scenerio: if someone is calling me, i'll hide behind the door and when the person comes through i scare them by shouting "gba" "gboa" or something silly like that. Does that ring a bell? U don't even have to be called, just hide and scare anyone coming around sha...
Well, that was the case in my household a very long time ago. We had this young house-help then that used to swear that no one was ever going to get her, u know "i ain't never scare!" kinda attitude...lol... True to her word, no one could ever get her, but she always got us good. Climb up the stairs, and she'll be hiding waiting to say "gbo," Enter into the kitchen and she's a in corner waiting to scare you...turn on the stairs in the bedroom and she'll appear and scare you...infact it got to a point that my cousins and i decided that we had had enough and we were going to get her real good.
So this particular day, she was left to make sure all the doors were securely locked as usual. She had cut off the lights and all and gone upstairs.
Two of my cousins and i came back downstairs, one had powder covering her face and wearing black, the other was completely covered up to the face with a white bedsheet and i had a black and white one covering me up. An aunt who was on this with us, sent her back downstairs to get something for her. Moment she cut the lights back off, we appeared looking like some real scary ghost and making funny noises, My cousin proceeded to call her name 3 times like you would see in some of those yoruba homevideos, asked her to kneel down and she must not scream, while the rest of us went on with our hmmmmmmm noises.
Men, this girl was dying, she was crying like the world was coming to an end, she was shaking, and begging altogether, can't remember what story my cousin formulated for her sha but i remember the end was that she should put her head down so that we can disappear and she must not say a word about our appearance sha...we ran upstairs and waited for her to come up...the girl ran like she had truly seen spirits, but we burst out laughing as soon as she got in...we got her real good! I thought that was funny...but now i think it could have been an expensive joke sha, what if she had a heart attack or something?
Another case, we had friends visiting from the Gambia. I had met the man a couple of times, but this was the first time i was meeting his daughters from two different mothers and about the same age as me. Very funny, the girls and i bonded very well, like we had known each other forever. Anyway, one of them, let's call her A, told me the other one-B, slept like a log of wood through anything. Of-course, i wanted to put it to the test and A was willing to prove it to me. It was actually A's plan. the three of us slept in the same room that nite after talking for many hours. Of-course B was the first to fall asleep. We waited for about 30 mins after she was asleep, then went into the bathroom and started running water. A lighted a newspaper and put it through B's noise/face briefly and we started to shout fire! fire! fire!
Best to believe that B woke up, looked at us and went rite back to sleep. Actually, i doubt if she really woke up sef, she just turned around and looked and slept back...lol...
Oh gosh, i think i have a few more, but i just remembered i had to prepare and send some tests to the scoring center...God help me, they may not come back before parent conferences....
I'm really calling for trouble with this blogging habit. As much as i like blogging, i don't even blog at home. I only like it here at work....
Oh, did i mention i just joined facebook like 2 or 3 weeks ago and i can actually say there is nothing to it. I'm not addicted! I actually like my blogsville instead!!!
Ok, i'm outie!!!!
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Yippeee!!! Profile # 6
Yes Ladies, we finally have a man put up a profile, and even better, he has expressed interest in one of the profiles...if it's your's you'll know soonest...hahaha...but ladies, if you're also interested in knowing more bout this guy, please feel free to holla at me.... Here goes it!!
Profile # 6
Age: 31
Sex: Male
Occupation: Brand Consultant/Publisher
Religion: Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 25 - 30
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Anywhere
Interests: Reading, Writting, Contemporary Jazz
Would you like to describe yourself? Not so Light skinned, used to be atlethic Built, not exactly Tall, mostly Fun, usually principled & frightfully ambitious... oh and I am cute!
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Cool, calm & collected- A lady. Good sense of style, purpose-driven and a sense of Humour - oh and cute too!
Profile # 6
Age: 31
Sex: Male
Occupation: Brand Consultant/Publisher
Religion: Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 25 - 30
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Anywhere
Interests: Reading, Writting, Contemporary Jazz
Would you like to describe yourself? Not so Light skinned, used to be atlethic Built, not exactly Tall, mostly Fun, usually principled & frightfully ambitious... oh and I am cute!
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Cool, calm & collected- A lady. Good sense of style, purpose-driven and a sense of Humour - oh and cute too!
Friday, April 25, 2008
Stuvvs
HMMMM...
People, please allow me to express that "there is a God!"
I have a testimony: "And we overcame by the blood of the lamb and by the word of our testimony"
So bout a week or two now, i was being hunted for money oh! It came to an embarassing point where those idiot debt collectors even started calling me at work, thank God it was me they were getting directly...lol...(now i can laugh about it)
Well, i was determined not to let my spirit be completely down so i kept "believing" but the honest truth was that i knew 1k5 was not going to drop from nowhere. Ok, i was down at some point, i think i made mention of it somehow, because i remember going out and treating myself to a couple of new outfits, and a pair of shoes,(yeah bad idea abi, it would esp since i needed money, the trust me, the amount would not have paid my debts) Even though i knew the money was not going to come, i was determined i was not going to borrow either. Abi, borrowing again to pay off one gbese is not the solution. And truly, for one of my gbese's that is automatic deduction, it was the bank's fault oh, they threw me off and me i thought i had money in the account i kuku ma started spending...only for them to call me and say almost a month later and say a payment did not go through...Men! that step me back big time!
School had sent third notice...lol... and next step was to send to debt collection which would acrue another 17% on the amount...I was just thinking abi who sent me to school now...diploma dem no wan give me sef...I think i had posted them enough and it was finally time to pay off...let me add that i've not exactly started reaping/benefiting for that added degree oh...
Well, s.chic's brother was supposed to be the last resort sha, but since i've not spoken to him in a minute and i even missed his birthday i had still not devised how i was going to get him to give me the money oh... i said give yeah, not borrow...atleast if not all, pay one of my gbese's... I really like brothers sha, wonder if it's the same with sisters...i can truly obtain from my brothers.
Earlier this year, one of my brothers gave me money for new pair of glasses, call it my b/day present. Well, the good sister i am, i kuku ma spent the money, ok i can justify it, i did business with it...The thing is, he never asked if i had even gotten the glasses sef, but please why did daddy s.chic ask every single time he called? I was almost going to tell him "ki lo de?" are you the one that gave me the money?...but since he himself is coming real soon, i had to go find money again and get new frames ohhh...
Anyway, i digressed, sorry. Somehow, the amount i needed and a tart bit more came to look for me when i least expected...thanks to "uncle sam." (my tax returns)
So, really there is a God!
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Unto other things... Some colleagues & I had a conversation a long time ago about this, and i didn't believe when one of the girls said it happened to them...but it's finally happening to me.
You want to know what? Ok, i'm shy, i'm ashamed to say it sef, but i've starting getting pre-menstrual horniness... As in, i know my period is coming because i start to feel horny...
Please abeg, tell me i'm ok and it does happen.
I've come to the conclusion that i need to get married and have unaccountable sex at this stage in my life. When i say unaccountable sex, i don't have to feel guilty that i'm having sex outside of wedlock and the fact that i'll be having it with my husband, rather than the available man just because i'm horny.
*************************************************************************************
So, our profiles, i've had different responses to it. I just wanted to clarify that the ladies on here so far are not "desperately" in a bad way looking. We are just opening our options up since we may not be in a position to meet people all the time like that and for other different reasons.
If i could get anyone reading this to make a mention of it on their blog it would be much appreciated. I'm actually looking for guys that i know are serious in my personal life as well to add to it but the problem is i would be exposing my blog, which actually i already did to a personal friend to get her profile up.
Ok, i think i've talked enough for now jare...
ps: one more thing before i go... was playing catch-up with a friend of mine and she was asking me for advice and i really could not help her. So there is this guy she's talking to now, problem is the guy used to talk to her friend at one point. Her friend is no longer in the state and they've both moved on since long time ago sha. Anyway, so she knows all their history because she and the friend used to be real close at some point...but the guy is expressing serious interests, as in marriage interest...so is it ok for her to date him? does she have to ask her friend? I told her i would have to go consult with awon temi (my own) and get back to her..lol...see how dry my real world is? You my beautiful readers are my own!
Anyway, what do you all think?
People, please allow me to express that "there is a God!"
I have a testimony: "And we overcame by the blood of the lamb and by the word of our testimony"
So bout a week or two now, i was being hunted for money oh! It came to an embarassing point where those idiot debt collectors even started calling me at work, thank God it was me they were getting directly...lol...(now i can laugh about it)
Well, i was determined not to let my spirit be completely down so i kept "believing" but the honest truth was that i knew 1k5 was not going to drop from nowhere. Ok, i was down at some point, i think i made mention of it somehow, because i remember going out and treating myself to a couple of new outfits, and a pair of shoes,(yeah bad idea abi, it would esp since i needed money, the trust me, the amount would not have paid my debts) Even though i knew the money was not going to come, i was determined i was not going to borrow either. Abi, borrowing again to pay off one gbese is not the solution. And truly, for one of my gbese's that is automatic deduction, it was the bank's fault oh, they threw me off and me i thought i had money in the account i kuku ma started spending...only for them to call me and say almost a month later and say a payment did not go through...Men! that step me back big time!
School had sent third notice...lol... and next step was to send to debt collection which would acrue another 17% on the amount...I was just thinking abi who sent me to school now...diploma dem no wan give me sef...I think i had posted them enough and it was finally time to pay off...let me add that i've not exactly started reaping/benefiting for that added degree oh...
Well, s.chic's brother was supposed to be the last resort sha, but since i've not spoken to him in a minute and i even missed his birthday i had still not devised how i was going to get him to give me the money oh... i said give yeah, not borrow...atleast if not all, pay one of my gbese's... I really like brothers sha, wonder if it's the same with sisters...i can truly obtain from my brothers.
Earlier this year, one of my brothers gave me money for new pair of glasses, call it my b/day present. Well, the good sister i am, i kuku ma spent the money, ok i can justify it, i did business with it...The thing is, he never asked if i had even gotten the glasses sef, but please why did daddy s.chic ask every single time he called? I was almost going to tell him "ki lo de?" are you the one that gave me the money?...but since he himself is coming real soon, i had to go find money again and get new frames ohhh...
Anyway, i digressed, sorry. Somehow, the amount i needed and a tart bit more came to look for me when i least expected...thanks to "uncle sam." (my tax returns)
So, really there is a God!
***************************************************************************************
Unto other things... Some colleagues & I had a conversation a long time ago about this, and i didn't believe when one of the girls said it happened to them...but it's finally happening to me.
You want to know what? Ok, i'm shy, i'm ashamed to say it sef, but i've starting getting pre-menstrual horniness... As in, i know my period is coming because i start to feel horny...
Please abeg, tell me i'm ok and it does happen.
I've come to the conclusion that i need to get married and have unaccountable sex at this stage in my life. When i say unaccountable sex, i don't have to feel guilty that i'm having sex outside of wedlock and the fact that i'll be having it with my husband, rather than the available man just because i'm horny.
*************************************************************************************
So, our profiles, i've had different responses to it. I just wanted to clarify that the ladies on here so far are not "desperately" in a bad way looking. We are just opening our options up since we may not be in a position to meet people all the time like that and for other different reasons.
If i could get anyone reading this to make a mention of it on their blog it would be much appreciated. I'm actually looking for guys that i know are serious in my personal life as well to add to it but the problem is i would be exposing my blog, which actually i already did to a personal friend to get her profile up.
Ok, i think i've talked enough for now jare...
ps: one more thing before i go... was playing catch-up with a friend of mine and she was asking me for advice and i really could not help her. So there is this guy she's talking to now, problem is the guy used to talk to her friend at one point. Her friend is no longer in the state and they've both moved on since long time ago sha. Anyway, so she knows all their history because she and the friend used to be real close at some point...but the guy is expressing serious interests, as in marriage interest...so is it ok for her to date him? does she have to ask her friend? I told her i would have to go consult with awon temi (my own) and get back to her..lol...see how dry my real world is? You my beautiful readers are my own!
Anyway, what do you all think?
Profile
Profile #5
Age: 26
Sex: Female
Occupation: Lawyer
Religion: Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 27-32
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Nigeria PLEASE
Interests: like music and traveling
Would you like to describe yourself? Light skinned, tall, on the petite side, serious minded, very principled.
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Fun loving sensitive but above all, loves God
Interested in this lady? please e-mail sassiechic@gmail.com
Age: 26
Sex: Female
Occupation: Lawyer
Religion: Christian
Faith: Pentecostal
Resident Country: Nigeria
Country of Origin: Nigeria
State: Delta
Age range of partner you seek: 27-32
Please indicate if you are interested only in someone in your country of residence or anywhere: Nigeria PLEASE
Interests: like music and traveling
Would you like to describe yourself? Light skinned, tall, on the petite side, serious minded, very principled.
Are you looking for specifics in a partner? Fun loving sensitive but above all, loves God
Interested in this lady? please e-mail sassiechic@gmail.com
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