I had to come write real quick before i forget again. Now i thought this was really funny...

this place is full of females and as expected there is usually quite a bit of talk going on about relationships on a regular basis. I've got this co-worker that we kinda became friends outside of work by hanging out occassionally, so i guess i can officially call her my friend now sha...

Anyway, whenever talk come up on relationships she's quick to say that we're the two last single women on earth and me on the other hand have been telling them "i'm getting married next year"for atleast 2-3 years now...lol....

let's call her "Amber" (hmmm...and i like the name oh). She does not date much even though she's in like 31/32. Anyway, Amber met this guy bout 2-3 weeks ago and they've been talking on the telephone. Yesterday, the dude calls her up and ask if she wants to go get something to eat. Since she was not doing anything and even left work early too, she kukuma went.

Somewhere during dinner, the guy tells her straight up that he wanted them to go back to his place so they could do the "do."...lol...Amber says she's stirring at this guy like his crazy or something and of-course she refuses. She's like she actually asked the guy back if what he said made any sense since that was the first time they were seeing after their initial meeting and yet he wanted to take her home for a screw.

She went on to give the guy a lecture on aids and all other sexually transmitted diseases (actually, she's kinda passionate bout that- i think she's originally from DC too so she usually has a lot to say). That he didn't even know what she carried and neither did she know what he was carrying and yet he wanted to take her home...lol...

Funny guy, told her he already knew the steps and since he had been talking to her, he was confident that she was clean...lol...The steps i asked and she explained..according to the guy,

the first date - a girl says no;
second date is still a no but she'll go home with him and make out
third date- is also still a no but with a little push, they'll get down to it.

I swear i bursted out laughing!!!

Amber said she was frantic!!! lol ...i thought it was funny...

Now Amber wants to know what ever happened to talking about solutions to world hunger and peace, politics, and society on dates?

I'm not much of a dater myself so i wouldn't know what conversation is appropriate but i bet it wouldn't or shouldn't be about going "home"